I stayed friends with a guy i barely dated and it went well, we kept the friendship, the more i ignored him the more he texted, he texted every day or every other day when we agreed that we dont need to talk every day from now on. I know he talks to other girls but thats fine cause he always texted me and i usually didn't reply til the next day and i especially never texted him first because in my mind he waits for another girl to text back and my name pops up and he is like "oh its just her" so i kinda made him work for the friendship or something like that. Now he i haven't received a text from him for 4 days, and i don't text first.
Maybe it's a test like he is waiting for me to text first this time? I don't want to bother him but i feel like he waits for me to do it bc its always him that initiates a new conversation. I also told him i'll have a tough week so maybe thats the reason but my overthinking tells me that maybe he got close with a girl he talks to so now he doesn't text me anymore. I don't know if i should but also its just a text like its no big deal and if he ghosts me then f*ck him and his friendship as well, but rn its like i ghosted him but i didn't
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If you know he is texting with other girls then that's not the guy you want to continue texting with, but if you are interested in him then you have to text him too or h is going to think you are not interested. You need to communicate and set boundaries if you like someone otherwise they won't know you like them and will not respect you either. It sounds like you started to like him but now that he went a bit cold on you it left you wondering.
I dont want to date him i just want to keep the friendship going
I'd say, based on your description, f*ck your "friendship".
This behaviour is bullshit. Your type of people are the ones I like to call "walking red flags".
Make him work... for a friendship? Are you fucking nuts?
I hope he got the right idea about you and is ignoring you, you entitled little red flag.
I highly suggest you read again what you wrote. Maybe from an ecmxternal standpoint. Because you actually made yourself look like an asshole.