Would you still think of a person like this as a gold digger?

[Anonymous]

If a person genuinely likes the other person they are dating but also at the same time is hoping they will financially support them.

[Summeroflove]

Well this is a complex question. If she’s honest about it with him that’s one thing. If she’s not honest…. That’s wrong yes especially if later down the road she becomes resentful of him.

Every relationship is different obviously if a woman truly loves a man if there was a situation out of his control where he lost money or she needed to work she would. However, it’s okay to want different things from a relationship.

If she wants something more traditional she needs to be honest. If he doesn’t want that the relationship either won’t work or they need to work things out.

Also, what does she have to offer? Is she wanting to just bum take and never give. Or is she planning to work her ass off taking care of her husband in a different role. Because there is traditional women working equally as hard in her own role. Taking care of the children, home, and him.

But the narcissistic women who want a free ride. Tend to become resentful when it’s not as easy or glamorous as they thought. They just wanted to plop babies out and blow money.

[Anonymous]

Well it depends. What is her idea of financially supporting her? If she asking for an allowance of a few thousand dollars a week? Or we talking her necessaries like food, water, shelter, clothing. I think that needs to be made known in the beginning of a courting process. But at the same time she shouldn’t expect to get these things w out reciprocating some sort of value to him.

[Hagar88]

Its like this...

If I feel off tomorrow would you still love me?

If I didn't smell so good would you still hug me?

If I got locked up and sentenced to a quarter century

Could I count on you to be there to support me mentally?

If I went back to a hoopty from a Benz

Would you poof and disappear like some of my friends?

If I was hit and I was hurt would you be by my side?

If it was time to put in work would you be down to ride?

I'd get out and peel a nigga cap and chill and drive

I'm asking questions to find out how you feel inside

If I ain't rap 'cause I flipped burgers at Burger King

Would you be ashamed to tell your friends you feelin' me?

[MontBlanc]

Not automatically , intent matters.

If someone genuinely cares about their partner but also hopes for financial support, it can be practical rather than greedy.

A “gold digger” usually prioritizes money over the person’s character or the relationship itself. Wanting help while still valuing the person isn’t the same thing.

[RavVid]

It is evolution that causes women to seek resources from men. In itself that is just natural. We wouldn't think of the wife in a 'death do us part' marriage as a gold digger as she has just been contributing in a non financial way.

On the other hand a woman divorcing at 8 years when both kiddies finally make it to elementary school is clearly a gold digger.

[Anonymous]

It depends. Does he just earn less than you, or is he a complete leech that does nothing? If I was dating someone who earns a lot more than me, I would be very aware of not being a leech, especially if I want her more than anything. If she is working, I should be too. There also other ways to provide for someone other than with money.

[uzumymw]

I have been with a woman like that

She would have to be really convincing that it is not just for the money

But no I would not think of her as a gold digger if it was truly for love

[Anonymous]

Is there a reason they can't support themselves? I mean honestly what has happened to women? I understand men used to be the sole income. But that was 1. When a sole income could raise an entire family and 2. When women wanted to raise a family.

It comes off as not a gold digger but rather a parasite. Becayse without details that's what your question describes.

[jahaims]

It depends on what you offer. If you want to be useless and be supported just because you gave pussy you are a gold digger

[Vegasrunner]

All women are Gold Diggers some are just better at hiding the shovel

[LiamJHayden]

No, she might be a potential SAHM.

[Anonymous]

Yupppp lol