Is it a red flag if your significant other forgets your bday and forgot valentines day too?

[Anonymous]

[MontBlanc]

It can be. Not automatically, but it can be.

Forgetting once is human. Forgetting both your birthday and Valentine’s starts to show a pattern.

What matters isn’t the dates, it’s the response.
Do they take responsibility and make it right? Or do they dismiss your feelings?

At the end of the day, the real question is: do you feel valued?

[Anonymous]

Forgetting both a birthday and Valentine’s Day can be a red flag, but it is not inherently proof of a lack of love. It depends on whether this is an isolated, stressful event or a pattern of neglect. If it’s a one-time occurrence, it may be due to busyness, while chronic forgetfulness suggests a lack of effort or care.

[uzumymw]

Yea big red flag

Never understood how anyone could forget their SOs birthday

[slatyb]

Yes, it is. You aren't a priority, you are an option.

[Anonymous]

Very much so. You should be more important to him.

[Mariogirl09]

They dont forget they just dont like you

[Mariogirl09]

Yes red flags

[Danny_dan92]

Maybe they have dementia

[BruceWayne32123]

Ahhh yeah? Thats pretty shitty

[Anonymous]

It would be to me ♥️👀🥲🫠😮‍💨😮‍💨

[WhitneySnow]

Yes!!!

[queenofcardio]

Yes it is.

[abc3643]

I think so, yes.

[In_Trance]

nope