A girl makes you happy with her beauty right?

[foxsquirrell]

In other words, there is no point in having a girlfriend who is unattractive. Just like there is no point in drinking vinegar instead of quality wine.

Very true

No I am fine if she is dull looking but cooks and takes care of me

[MrOracle]

If you are going to choose a girl solely or even primarily for her beauty, don't be surprised if she's picking men primarily for his money. Shallow people are shallow and tend to want more than they give.

If you are trying to have a real, lasting relationship (and not everyone is, but you need to be honest with yourself about what you are looking for), then the main things that matter are that you have similar morals and values and have compatible life goals. If you don't, your relationship will not last. Any beauty that she brings to the relationship is just a bonus, not anything you base a choice on.

You are allowed to make shallow choices, but the majority of the women who are okay with that will be those who are very shallow themselves and will expect you to either be very good looking or be wealthy and generous, because they want their own shallow dreams to come true as well.

[Anonymous]

No. I mean, don't get me wrong. I find the female form as pleasing as the next guy. But if a woman is beautiful, that likely is not an accident. That was by design to entrap you.

[foxsquirrell]

True it is nature's way to ensure continuity of the species. And at the same time to push forward good genes.

[Opinion Owner]

Well yeah, but I meant more to the fact that a lot of women use feminine wiles to move the odds in her favor that she gets what she wants. As a young man you don't question it. But as you get older and absorb more of women's tactics it becomes glaring. You biological are drawn to her beauty. But you are on your guard because you've seen the hallmarks of these games, this trap time and again.
This is primarily why a lot of older women get so angry. Because they can't game and trick men like they did in their youth. They actually have to become a good person or fail. And the ones that have always gamed guys do not want to do that.

[foxsquirrell]

Yes yes we are agreeing. They play on our natural instincts. And you are right. As we men grow older their game becomes obvious. Yet it still effective their game, because it is not like I will give up interest in attractive young women even if I know what they might be up to. I think the trick is not to let yourself fall in love and lose your mind. Keep reality at the back of your mind always.

[Opinion Owner]

Well that last part is where we differ. I'm not interested in playing her game just to get a piece. It's just not worth it to me. If you are, that's you're choice, I'm not judging.