What makes you see a girl as attractive?

Question

I am not talking about the external beauty or size. Beauty can fade anyway but just something about her.What is it?

JL10940 · Accepted Answer

For me, I think a girl with a bit of mystique is sexy and alluring as hell. Its all in the eyes for me. When you look at each others eyes, there's either a strong feeling or not...thats how it seems to go. But a girl who is secure being feminine, cat like, and affectionate...major turn-ons for me. I'm not into girls who make blatant, obvious advances on me, like being overly interested in everything I do or say...thats annoying. Again, a girl that makes you wonder, with a bit of mystique is a huge turn on. Yeah, but again, it really is all in the eyes and the way she looks into my eyes across the room and whatnot. If she is genuinely happy to see me...touches my arm and flrits with me alot...idk I'm a sucker for a girl who switches things up and who I can't read easily...because I tend to read women pretty well, so when I can't read a certain girl I get super intrigued and turned on.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

The way she looks at me, the way she laughs at my stupid jokes, the way she always smiles when I see her even if she is having a bad day, the way I smile when I see her, the way her eyes always seem to sparkle when I am looking into them, her little quirks (she does this little thing where she sometimes says something that she is thinking but didn't necessarily need to say it out loud, and it is not tourettes.). There is so much more than a physical connection that I just love having with a girl. Even if the outside may be lacking to others, you still think she is the most beautiful girl in the world because of everything else about her.

Erin5566 · Accepted Answer

I have a problem and I don't understand it I kinda need help! This guy I like I asked him to go to a dance with me, and he never answered and is avioding me but told his sister he's going with me? He never answered me! What do I do? It also came to me intention he's in love with my best friend. What does it mean?😭😭

JL10940 · Answer

Physical attractiveness aside... youthfulness and innocence and girlishness are ultra attractive to me (and men in general). Its weird, many times I'm pretty intellectual and analytical, but I'm usually attracted to others that balance me out. So when it comes to women, I find girls who aren't particularly intellectual and who are free and uninhibited and child-like EXTREMELY attractive. I don't like those weird messed up intellectual deep thinking girls...i watch out for them. Someone who laughs a lot and is spunky and brings out the kid in me. Super hot.

JH5022 · Answer

i like a girl who has maturity and doesn't play games, and lead him on just to shoot him down in the end and make him feel bad in the end? and I like a girl who feels equal with the people around her, and I like a girl who doesn't flaunt her material posessions, I like a girl who makes an equal opporutunity to make moves back once you make the first move, I like a girl who shows its okay when to make the move, and I like someone who is down to earth and doesn't make life so complicated like a maze, also when they come along with natural beauty , I run across these girls but they already have a boyfriend, I think the world is against me? :/

Littletad · Answer

It depends on the guy. I'm going to graduate from college soon and I've realized an intelligent girl is a major turn on. Being cultured and a well rounded personality is really nice as well. I'm not saying an intelligent guy is also looking for someone with "Einstein" smarts, but rather someone to whom we can relate a little bit. There's a big difference in conversations between, say, someone who only went to hs and someone who attended college. Most girls and guys who only attended high school are more likely to be obsessed with drama and so on so forth. So anyhow, I guess a girl with a nice intelligent personality and attractive smile are something most guy's would like.

yournamehere · Answer

mature, friendly, intelligent, outspoken, amiable, patient, knows when to crack a good joke when I'm feeling down, doesn't look at me for my looks but for my personality, knows what her future is and sets goals "a go-getter," invests something in me whether it be time, money, etc., willing to support me in whatever venture I go into, doesn't need to be with me but wants to, exercises and lives a healthy lifestyle, makes people around her feel better, understands when I need some alone time, pretty much it :)

maximusprime · Answer

Her overall personality attracts me.  They way she laughs and smiles when we see each other, they way she can make a joke out of anything, that she can make me laugh whenever she wants.  The cute things she does: little noises and facial expressions.  How she reaches out and touches my arm softly, or puts her arm in mine as we're walking along.  The way she takes an interest in whatever I'm doing, even if it's simple.  The card she drew for me with a picture of us holding hands on the front.  The way she brightens the room with a smile and the way her hair falls across her face.  The way she talks and thinks and the music she likes.  The way just seeing me can make her happy, and how happy seeing her makes me.

gotrandom · Answer

yeah beauty fades but emotions does not, if your love is just based on lust then once lust is gone then there's nothing,  what makes a girl attractive is the way she speaks to you, it should be like music to your ears, when you hear her voice you forget about your troubles, when you're with her you don't remember about the bills, work and anything, that look in her eyes that makes you feel loved, the way she acts like a kid around you yet knowing when to be mature, her touch that makes you get that tingling feeling, a lot of things makes an girl attractive, at first you would be attractive by her looks, afterward what keeps it strong is your inner emotions.

Anonymous · Answer

Sweetness. A girls sweetness is her most attractive quality to a guy. This girl I knew used to draw pictures of fairies. This other girl I was friends with would chase butterflies. When they bite there lower lip and say would you like to carry my books home from school. One girl I know dances and says I know you guys came to see me. Flirting sitting next a guy. Rubbing a guys back.God I love women! There so amazing gods creatures gifed to men!

lolfreddy · Answer

Her smell. lol

nah, her personality, I go for that I love a kind girl whose always herself and never acts fake. I don't like girls that start rumors, gossip or are dramatic, I like a calm girl, whos funny and loving but has awesome morals and views on life.

brutus21 · Answer

looks and physique aside, dont be judgmental, complexed, insecure, or be a douchebag, and dont treat people like trash, be kind to people, stand up for what's right even if it means stand against your own friends, have principles.
That is the biggest turn on, a girl with sound motives, goals, principles and a good character is the biggest turn on for me.
Asides from that, do work on yourself.
But remember, we live in an insecure society where people are so insecure that they want to drag others down just to feel better about themselves,
And in the end, remember if you like doing something and others dont like it even guys, remember do that more than to focus on being perceived as less attratcie and love yourself and give yourself a damn break girl ! Lifes too short,

izzybolden · Answer

Beauty does not always fade. Sure you might get wrinkles and your hair might turn grey, yet there are some that are still able to retain their beauty attributes that attracted their partner in the first place. I look for a person that ages like fine wine while also maintaining their inner sweetness and other divine qualities. Essentially, I desire products with a longer self-life rather than an expiration date (This is a food analogy, I'm not calling women food or products by any means... try not to misinterpret).

escence_e · Answer

I like the thought here. Well its a truth beauty degrades with age but not the personality of a person. If a person's persona is beautiful , then beauty would become immaterial. But a fact of human nature is that humans go more by looks and not by the persona.Besides, it takes some skill to identify the real gem from the stones.

lolfreddy · Answer

Her smell. lol

nah, her personality, I go for that I love a kind girl whose always herself and never acts fake. I don't like girls that start rumors, gossip or are dramatic, I like a cal girl, whos funny and loving but has awesome morals and views on life.

ekspain · Answer

For me, its femininity. Her feminine nature attracts me. Being very different from myself.

Softness. Her voice, her intellect.

Just being a Woman, is attractive to a man. Difference is always an attraction. For example I am a rebel, my girlfriend is timid and shy, we are strongly attracted to each other.

TradEmo · Answer

Someone I can trust with anything, and I truly try my hardest to return that trust. Someone who can admit my flaws, and can admit when they're wrong, someone who can openly agree. Someone who isn't afraid to show their affection, like hugs or holding hands. Someone who just generally makes me feel like I have a purpose to be on this big blue planet, that I am more than just an useless air waster, and do all I can to make that person feel like they are the best the person in the world.

JustDance · Answer

Her presence when she's around me and if there is that "chemistry". If it naturally clicks like that and that she fits my personality: funny,smart, flirtatious... looks don't mean much if that attraction is going on

Anonymous · Answer

Personality wise, she must have a good sense of humour. A girl who makes me laugh, and laughs a lot really pulls me in.

JH5022 · Answer

girls that play sports, and are not materialistic, naturally hott without makeup, and are down to earth, and I dig brunettes a lot, alos ones that make the first move, and are agressive

ski-stud-mike · Answer

well only a hot face and body will make a guy want to get on a girl.  as far as other qualities a guy would like a girl to have - funny, smart and nice are what I want.

Kayaking · Answer

Starts with her focus: Is she centered in herself and her issues or is she generating beauty,                                         wisdom, curiosity and love to the world around her.

jacquesvol · Answer

Very personal choice: 1.A natural smile 2. Twinkling eyes 3. Something she says 4. Colours I like that day 5. ...

wally · Answer

her personality and the way she likes me too. how she's optimistic and enjoying life, laughing smiling.

Anonymous · Answer

Your personalities must compliment each other...aka you should bring out the best in her and vice versa.

Anonymous · Answer

How much she has in common with me, her personality (is she sweet, kind, thoughtful, caring?) and of course, her maturity (is she genuine and capable of love?).

metaldave20 · Answer

different guys have different realities of what an attractive woman is

kevlar · Answer

I am a sucker for a girl that CHALLENGES me. I can't help but chase her.

higurb · Answer

They way she carries herself and how she responds to situations.

quimeramen · Answer

Her way of acting, her personality, a girl that doesn't need the approval of anybody that's one of the most charismatic and attractive points of a girl.

Anonymous · Answer

Personally, I like a girl that's wild. Not psycho wild, just lively. I'm a sucker for cute tomboyish girls. :P Also, I like a girl with a sweet personality.

ChelseaFC2009 · Answer

Seeing her smile and the way she looks at me.

regular-guy · Answer

Confidence, spunk, general goodness/wholesomeness.

Anonymous · Answer

The way she looks at me while she's sucking my dick. The way she swallows and doesn't spit. Tis true love

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