What would you like to see the opposite sex start doing more of when it comes to dating and relationships?

[HawkPerception]

[Adam_INTJ]

I want to see girls telling each other about how much they appreciate guys approaching them.

I feel like that there's this terrible cycle going on where girls in their 20s complain about guys approaching them like it's an insult, then their younger friends grow up thinking that they're supposed to hate when guys approach them (and then they actually convince themselves to hate it. And when they're all 30 and unattractive, they wish guys would approach them.

If girls who had a positive experience of a guy approaching them would just make sure to share that story with all her friends, we could have some more mingling and cute "how we met" stories instead of toxic dating apps.

[new-person]

Acting like an adult and respect.

It is like women look at guys as a free ticket to get free things. Even if you are meeting for the first time. Ok you do not even know eachother but expect the guy to pay for everything, why? You not even in a relationship. This is not respectful.

A lot of women look at guys as a income and money source. I am not interested in dating a dependent, I want to date a responsible adult who respects boundarys.

[ohsheeT]

Nothing really its not a competitions or it's not you have to do this, and I have to do that, you just let it flow. If you're both interested in each other , you will talk forever

If you say, well, you need to do more of this that what ever.

I mean , if I was going to tell her something , I would tell myself first and do it myself , all it takes is a spark , get things going

Or all it takes is spark to burn things down , and it's done and over with

A lot of people say relationships are fifty fifty

I say they're one00 one00 because there will always come a time or a day that one of them is just down-and-out. They're tired , something's wrong and they don't pull their fifty , so you have to pull it for them it's part of life , it's part of relationships and you make it work

[Chazmatazz269]

Being completely open and honest.

[VioletHaze]

Oftentimes, going to the gym makes up half a man's personality. I know there is probably more going on, but that's how they portray themselves. And I lose interest fast.

Be curious, have opinions and feel strongly about things. Even if that means we disagree.

[HawkPerception]

I'd say that applies to all men. Not just men that hit the gym. It's an overall issue with society as a whole. People don't have a sense of identity or know what their passions are in life. They don't have a curiosity for many things and all they care about is getting money and a partner. They don't care how it happens.

I think going to the gym is only a good thing because at the very least, it shows you care about your health and appearance.

[VioletHaze]

Absolutely. Going to the gym is great, but when that's the only hobby, it gets a little boring.

[Xoirwinkan]

A lot of times guys tone down their opinions for others, especially around girls, because men don't care so much about being politically correct and are more conservative than women.

[VioletHaze]

That is probably true as well. But I am also referring to hobbies or subjects you are passionate about. I get not wanting to offend someone or start a debate.

[Xoirwinkan]

I definitely think it's what can make a person interesting, having a few good hobbies.

[NicholasofAustralia]

I'm more than just big biceps 💪 I've got big quads 🦵🦵

[MontBlanc]

Honestly, I’d just like to see more consistency and emotional accountability.
Not grand gestures just clarity.

If you’re interested, show it. If you’re unsure, say it.
Mixed signals create unnecessary confusion.

I think dating feels healthier when both people are intentional instead of just going with whatever feels convenient in the moment.

[Xoirwinkan]

Honesty is good all around. I think a lot of guys don't want to appear too eager or go 'all in' because the possible rejection will hurt all the more. Also I think girls send a lot more mixed signals than guys.

[MontBlanc]

That’s a fair point.

Rejection can make anyone cautious about showing too much interest too quickly.

I think mixed signals happen on both sides sometimes.

Maybe that’s why clarity matters even more, because it helps reduce the guessing game for everyone involved.

[dragoblack]

Self improvement; taking responsibility for emotional reactions; taking the time to overcome trauma & insecurities, instead of turning it into her type; understanding when her standards are unrealistic and/or outdated for modern society; emotionally mature and aquire emotional intelligence & wisdom; stop the petty behavior; treat men as people with emotions & vulnerabilities.

[NathanDavis]

I have nothing to complain about... my exes were great

I mean, none of them knew how to bake homemade cheetos but you know... I could always learn that and make them myself...

[queenofcardio]

Better and effective communication. I talk a lot but I am not a mind reader.

[NicholasofAustralia]

"customer service 101"

[Shy-boy53]

Communication is key, just wish I could take that advice. Things growing up looking after myself have kinda left me with my guard up most of the time and going in on myself way to often

[Xoirwinkan]

Initiate more. Whether it comes to asking guys out or initiating sex in a relationship, women could do it more. Also, men rarely receive compliments.

[Alex-Snow]

It is ok for a girl to ask a guy out on a date. I love it when it happens

[MissSunshine2]

Showing generosity and selflessness.

[Anonymous]

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