Which of these patterns do you tend to do when someone you really like starts to get really close?

[Still-alive]

Really close as in they start feeling really connected to you on a deeper level

I cling a bit—I don’t want to lose them.

I open up more—it feels good to connect.

I become inconsistent—sometimes loving, sometimes distant.

I put up a wall or change the subject.

A total of 16 votes were cast: 9 girls and 7 guys. See detailed results

[bobalife]

Hahahaha I’m sure you can already guess due to my attachment style…. Typically inconsistency with a combo of clingy, pushed them away, & build up my wall in a short spam 🙄 *self•aware and work in progress girly*🫠😬🫥

[Still-alive]

Aww, you’ll find your way. I believe in ya!

[bobalife]

I’m doing better finding my ways in 2026😀

[Still-alive]

Yay 😀

[DishLady]

I tend to open up more, though still reserved with some things. I wait for them to ask be about certain things so that I'm not oversharing.

[queenofcardio]

I definitely over share. I'll look forward to any form of communication from them

[Alex-Snow]

I open up more and am not afraid to share more details about myself

[yulbsari]

Deep connection is rare and precious. It's the only condition that causes me to open up.

[WhitneySnow]

Open up more