If a woman is 28 about to be 29 and the man is in his early 40s like 43 is that a big age gap I wouldn’t say so am I wrong?

[Anonymous]

There is a guy that works with me and I think kinda cute. He’s older and I’m usually not into older man, but this one is different. Is that too much ladies

[Anonymous]

Absolutely nothing wrong w that. It’s honestly ridiculous that someone should say pedophiliac territory. I don’t see an issue w the age. If you both like each other than that should’ve left up to the two of you to decide, not someone else. You’re going to have to live that life. People tend to say well what could they possibly have in common. You don’t have to have everything in common. I met my girl, she liked things that I had never experienced just the same as she hadn’t experienced a lot of things I liked. I don’t go home to talk to her about rocket science or medical stuff. That’s the last thing I want to talk about. We talk about the yard, the dogs, what we want to plant, sports, etc, etc. The few things I would say to make sure you discuss are your views on politics if you’re both into that, religion, what are we seeking out of a relationship. Whether that’s marriage, kids, etc. His will the kids be disciplined. Money for sure as that’s one of the biggest things for divorce. Of course that doesn’t all have to come up at once. But those would be some of the main core things I’d establish. As for everything else, you don’t need to have it in common. The only ones who would really have an issue w it are usually women.

[Levin]

Who cares what anyone thinks. Do what you want. Life is too short.

[Asker]

But is it a lot?

[Nikki1989]

That depends on the man himself. Some men are "old men" at 30. Some, like my husband, are much older and still bouncing off the walls with energy. Choose wisely.

[DishLady]

So she's 28 and he's 43... nearly double her age... PEDOPHILIAC territory... that seems normal to you. Ok, then...

[Shiprex]

It is not a big gap in the slightest. He probably has his life sorted out and is able to be in a place where he will choose to start and support a family rather than get with someone with lots of baggage at a similar age

[nastyb]

Being older doesn't necessarily mean he's in a financially better place. I know Lots of 40 to 50 yr olds who work at trader joes on minimum wage and 30 yr olds who are vice president of companies

[HighValue]

It's fine.

The best thing you can do is never take relationship advice from women. They often purposely give bad advice.

[exitseven]

It depends on the individual. Some people are more youthful than others. Genetics and lifestyle play a major role in this.

[Pterodon]

I was in a very serious relationship with a 29 year old when I was 54

[Anonymous]

I think its kinda weird for a 28 yr old to be interested in a 43 yr old. You can try it out but large age gaps comes with its own issues later on down the road.

[StevenMcGarrett]

My wife is 11 younger than me and we've been together for twenty years.

[Asker]

Ohhh

[StevenMcGarrett]

So age is just a number.

[Asker]

Sometimes yea

[Anonymous]

Yeah you're wrong. Anything larger than 10 years. is a large age gap.

[zombiewoof]

No big deal

[ImalwaysrightOK]

Not at all.