Who should pursue whom? The man or the woman?

[MissSunshine2]

I’ve experienced both, before.

[Anonymous]

The one who's interested should pursue (be that man or woman). And the one being pursued should be HONEST with the other person (be that man or woman). It not OK to build your own ego at someone else's expense.

[MissSunshine2]

Agreed on its being wrong to lead someone on.

[Opinion Owner]

Well you don't have to agree with the first part of what I say. But if you only expect to be pursued then know you ONLY deserve what pursues you.👍💯
Most guys do not have a problem with pursuing. But most women today do nothing worthy of being pursued. Facts!💯

[MissSunshine2]

I am usually the pursuer. It’s only been in maybe 3-4 out of millions of cases where it wasn’t my idea from the beginning.

[Opinion Owner]

I can relate. More women pursue me now. But every woman I've pursued ends in failure of some sort which is why I don't do it.👍 why would I?😆 I haven't pursued a woman in about 12 years. And yes, the same advice goes for me. I only deserve what pursues me.

I will admit it that the lot of a man vs. The lot of a woman. Is most women that pursue men are more honest while most men who pursue women are liars. But on the flipside as a guy most women lead more men on for attention then men lead women on for attention.

[serious]

I think it would depend on the people involved. Some men would prefer that the woman chase them whereas some will pursue the woman.

The same is true vice versa also

[Hagar88]

The man generally only thinks he's pursuing

[MissSunshine2]

That’s completely true. There were maybe only about 3-4 times in my life where it was the man’s idea.

[palewhale]

man should pursue women, they dont have to hunt or do most of the things they used to. the least they can do if they want to date a women is ask them out.

[msc545]

Why is it the man's obligation to do this?

[palewhale]

@msc545 because I'm not doing it and make it known so they make a choice. do or not. simple.

[msc545]

So don't do it. Nobody needs you.

[palewhale]

@msc545 yes thats true, no one needs anyone, we are all expendable in the wrong crowd.

[Berethor]

It tend to be seen as a man's role but nothing stopping a woman from pursuing a man.

[ABitShattered]

Both ways tbh. I was pretty up front with my wife when we started dating i. e. telling her she's adorable I want to take her on a date during our first FaceTime session

[exitseven]

The man should do the chasing but getting a little help from the woman is okay.

[Alex-Snow]

Maybe stay with both? Go with your guy feeling and what feels best physically and emotionally.

[CuriousMufuxka]

Whoever wants to go fishing. I've heard it's a little easier for the womenfolk..

[Nikki1989]

There are no rules.

[DryGermanGuy]

The dog should pursue the rabbit! 🧐

[bowenw]

There are no rules.

[RHK36]

Whoever is interested

[msc545]

either or both.

[dudeinohio]

Both