Why do successful relationship coaches teach men how to get laid and women how to get married?

[Vegasrunner]

[ManOnFire]

Usually those coaches have had a ton of experience with women much more than the average man. There aren't as many women coaches as male ones, and the women coaches usually are not all that knowledgeble, rather they try to teach men what they think they should know about women, or only what they want them to know about women. Male coaches, especially if they're trying to teach men to get laid, keep things brutally real, and the guys can either take it or leave it.

Although I still don't really follow a lot of them, one coach I can say tends to be frighteningly spot on is Casey Zander. Some of what he often talks about is the same stuff I've also said for a long time that many guys still don't want to hear. He also proves that what he teaches is correct when he talks about how many guys write to him and tell him that his stuff really did work for him.

[Vegasrunner]

@ManOnFire Good stuff as per usual. Not familiar with Zander, but certainly will look him up now.

[TediumIsTheWorstPain]

Because sex is harder to get for most men than it is for most women. And generally speaking, male interest in marriage is lower than it's ever been.

A life coach that offered to teach women how to get laid would quickly go out of business, because women can already do that with no problem.

A life coach that offered to teach men how to get married would quickly go out of business, because marriage isn't something men particularly want.

[Zionne]

It’s often about addressing what each group commonly struggles with... men are usually guided on attraction and confidence, while women are coached on building lasting connection and commitment.

[Vegasrunner]

@Zionne Good take men usually struggle with getting laid women usually struggle with getting married.

[VioletHaze]

If I wanted to get laid, all I needed to do was ask a random man. So why would I need coaching?

[Vegasrunner]

@VioletHaze Excellent point so you're saying its easy for any woman to get laid but difficult for men?

[VioletHaze]

Yes. I would not have an issue finding a man willing to sleep with me. Men would find it harder as women are more selective. I am also not interested in 'getting laid'. And I think a lot of women prefer sex within a committed relationship to someone they have an emotional connection to.

[Vegasrunner]

@VioletHaze Agreed any woman can get laid. So if I understand you you're saying successful relationship coaches teach women to get married because men are more selective when it comes to what type of women they will committ to?

[VioletHaze]

Yeah, I think that sounds right. And the fact that women seldom want to just 'get laid' though it does happen.

[Vegasrunner]

@VioletHaze Agreed.

[aceleon]

mm, perhaps it is the core thing most of them wants?

you can't deny guys are more prone to wanting to get laid and girls are more prone to want marriage in general.

[WonderingManII]

I don't know, I have an audio book written by a relationship coach. I felt that it was trying to teach me as a shy guy how to manipulate women to get into bed with me.

[Vegasrunner]

@wonderingmanii Literally the point of the question.

[WonderingManII]

@Vegasrunner Because it is hard for men to get a woman to go to bed with him.

[Vegasrunner]

@wonderingmanii Makes sense. That means that men who can get women to go to bed with them must have talent?

[WonderingManII]

@Vegasrunner Due to my mental and physical health problems I am a shut in. But I think it is true that a Man needs to know all the right things to say. He also needs to be able to go places where He can try over and over and over and over again until He scores. It is my opinion that is wrong for Women to make it so hard. She's got her priorities all messed up. What she should be looking for from a Man is someone that will Love her, and be a partner with her. Instead she looks for someone that brings something to her life. But I have a question for her. "What happens if you pick someone that adds what you want, but the man has something bad happen to him so that He can no longer do what He could do before? Will you leave him and try to find another guy who can do what you want?" I mean that is cold!

[MissSunshine2]

Because that’s what a percentage of both want?

[Vegasrunner]

@MissSunshine2 Has to be the majority of it creates successful coaches.

[MissSunshine2]

Yes, you’re probably right. 🙂

[Anonymous]

Because theyre needed for society 🤭😆

Clearly they exist the same way your electricity pole workers exist, your janitors exist, your truck drivers exists, your accountants exist, your surgeons exist,

They're a necessity 😅💭

[beenherebefore]

Men and women have different priorities in life.

[AngryCarl3]

Relationship coaches are bogus. As long as you have rizz and a hot body you'll get by.

[Mike_Hum]

because women don't have trouble getting laid.

[MereAnarchy]

Women don't shag enough; men are poor partners.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Never heard that one before.

[Kingofkings1992]

They don't.