Ex-coworker I was close with reached out months after leaving. We texted and FaceTimed. Is she just being friendly or signaling interest?

[Anonymous]

[HollyK21]

If you like her, be an adult and ask her out. Stop waiting for signs and signals, act on how you feel. If you’re aren’t romantically interested then whether she likes you or not doesn’t matter because it’s friendly on your end and you’d just have to let her down easy if the topic ever arises.

[Asker]

How do you know it's friendly on my end?

[HollyK21]

I said: if you ARE NOT romantically interested then whether she likes you or not doesn’t matter because it’s friendly on your end. Again, if you are NOT.

[Asker]

Right. I have a question. Why is it about my interest if she is the one that reached out?

[HollyK21]

Because even if you don’t know how the other person feels, you know how YOU feel.

[HollyK21]

You’re welcome to drag your feet about this, hoping for her to make a move but in my opinion that’s a great way to either friendzone yourself or miss your window of opportunity. Since she reached out first, I think the ball should be in your court rather than letting her make all the gestures.

[Nikki1989]

FaceTiming is meaningless. Texting is even more repressed.

This modern generation is so ignorant.

[Master_Debator]

You're only asking this because you have interest. Be there for her if you want, and something may happen or she will find some Chad to fuck. You have your foot in the door for a fuck... that's all I got to say about that. The outcome depends on you.

[Asker]

Isn't the outcome on her since she reached out?

[Master_Debator]

She's giving you a chance bro... you'll either take it or you'll pass. Easy bang from my viewpoint... but I don't pass judgment if you choose to pass.

[Asker]

How is she giving me a chance? All we did was text and FaceTime. That doesn't really mean much.

[Master_Debator]

Bro... listen... a woman is communicating with you at all means she wants to fuck. You just have to play your cards right and blam... warm pussy around your dick. If you make me break this down anymore for you, it's gay. Don't be gay. Fuck the chick man. You got her and your talking to me. I'm getting drunk and will probably get my whisky dick jumped as soon as I try to sleep... I don't have pussy problem... er um... lack of pussy problems, but maybe you could use some pussy.

[msc545]

Nobody here has any reasonable way of answering that question, you need to ask for yourself.

[slatyb]

She's interested. Ask her out.

[Asker]

Why wouldn't it be friendly?

[slatyb]

Because she already has friends, and because you are a man and she's a woman. Ask her out if you are interested, or do nothing and watch her go out with other men.

[Zionne]

she's interested ofc

[Asker]

Why would that mean she is interested?