Are you more afraid of intimacy or vulnerability, given the fast paced dating market?

[fonduegirl]

[NathanDavis]

not afraid of either

back in the days, when I was just 16 years old... I was quite apprehensive about these things and so many other things as well... and I still jumped right into it, lol

nothing bad happened, on the contraire...

there's nothing for me to fear, as long as I am aware...

[Anonymous]

Vulnerability. Because I have no problem being close to those I trust. But being vulnerable to the point I can get get close to someone is hard. I'm friendly, and a lot of times that leads some people to mistake us for having a bond we don't have. I don't really trust anyone I haven't known for at least a decade.

[loveslongnails]

I'm more afraid of fast food than either of those things.

[fonduegirl]

Mom is that you

[Still-alive]

Neither. im just afraid of wasting my time with someone fake or toxic. but i have gotten a whole lot better at detecting that from people so... not much fear there either :P

[Daytoday79]

Sometimes I feel afraid of vulnerability but it's also exciting.

[fonduegirl]

Totally

[Daytoday79]

Being intimate is also to be vulnerable and it's definitely exciting/arousing. Being naked with my partner and getting to know/explore each other physically is a total turn on for me.

[Kaneki05]

Neither? Then again me dating? Lol

[jahaims]

Their is no intimacy without vulnerability

[Jerre]

I’m not afraid of either one.

[beefcakebradybatson]

The latter.