Does someone in a relationship stop you from pursuing them?

[Finchie40]

You have a big crush on this person but they are with someone else , do you still pursue them or do you back off?

[realbiggrin]

What's the point your doomed if you do and if you dont. If you do nothing you dont get the girl. If you do seduce her at best you will be a rebound. If she doesn't respect the relationship she's in now she won't respect the one she's in with you either. Just move on.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Yep. They can chase me but I'll never be the one pushing on the knife that breaks things off so to speak. Not unless they simply won't let the girl go which has happened to me before

[sage2021]

I immediately back off!! They are deemed emotionally and physically unavailable to me when I know that about him.

[VioletHaze]

Why would you start a relationship with someone willing to cheat on their current partner? Seems stupid.

[Finchie40]

People do stupid shit all the time , I can’t tell you how many taken girls’ have told
Me they were single when really they weren’t

[MereAnarchy]

Who said anything about cheating? The question was about separating.

[VioletHaze]

Well, if you don’t do anything until the separation is finished and you weren't the leading cause of said seperation, I guess it's fine.

[MontBlanc]

Yes , if someone is already in a committed relationship, I see it as a boundary I don’t cross.

Respecting that boundary isn’t about fear or missing out, it’s about integrity, self respect, and honoring the choices of others.

Pursuing someone who’s unavailable rarely leads to anything meaningful.

[RavVid]

I would consider it morally wrong to do so. If it was coming from the other direction, I would still reject.

Lie down with dogs, get up with fleas is the way I look at it..

[abbyjgriffin98]

No, I back off. There's no reward in it, even if they choose you. Because if they do that to their current partner, they'll do that to you.

[exitseven]

I did this once. It really did not seem like much of a relationship so I went for it. It took a while but patience carried the day.

[Crankor]

That would be a pretty douschey thing to not respect ones relationship

[Caughtulookin]

I think and have read that women will test men by telling them they are taken. Nothing applies to all but no matter what a woman says to you if you have developed an aquaintence should bother. Just treat it as though its the same as before.

[888theGreat]

of course , that would not be normal. Amazing how no one here has any morals

[Anonymous]

Im actually too shy to pursue anyone, even if they are single.

[Diana2828]

About to turn 29 but this man said I look 25

[MereAnarchy]

No. Their problem, not mine.

[Anonymous]

If it were me, I'd move on and back off 😁

[Staximus]

Yeah, I'm not a shit bag

[Zionne]

back off bro