Does success with women really just come down to how many you approach?

[Vegasrunner]

[Anonymous]

No. That's what women will tell you because they want you to believe that just asking one more woman will make a difference.

It's no more right than telling women that doing the same thing will make a difference.

In both cases it's going to come down to many factors. The chief among them being that the person is even remotely interested. Because you'd be amazed how many people will find you attractive and still for whatever reason just say, "no".😆

[WonderingManII]

No I think it comes down to how blessed you are in the look department. How smart you are. How successful you are. And your personality. All things you have almost no control over.

[Vegasrunner]

@wonderingmanii Men have complete control over all three of those things.

[WonderingManII]

@Vegasrunner You have no sense of reality if you think that.

[Vegasrunner]

@wonderingmanii I believe that is what you will be accused of. Most competent people understand you have control over how you look, how intelligent you are and how successful you become.

[WonderingManII]

@Vegasrunner most people are not me, and don't have the same cards I have been dealt with.

[Vegasrunner]

@wonderingmanii If you realize that most people aren't you why would you attention to provide general advice?

[WonderingManII]

@Vegasrunner if you ever get sick, and come down with a disability that isolates you, and you get lonely you will want to talk to people.

[Vegasrunner]

@wonderingmanii So you were saying this because you were lonely?

[KimmySchmit]

No. Largely depends on how attractive you are and a woman's availability. Think thats the mistake guys make.

[Vegasrunner]

@kimmyschmit Thats a mistake most women make. Luckily men can mak up for his deficiencies. Woman unfortunately are stuck with their looks as their only agency.

[KimmySchmit]

Can a man make up for his deficiencies and how?
If he's over 40 can he become younger?
If he's short can he learn to be 6ft?
If he's not physically attractive can he suddenly become that?
If he has a dull personality can he become Eddy Murphy?

[Vegasrunner]

@kimmyschmit Great question and dont be embarrassed that you dont know.

Age isn't a deficiency for men as most men provided they do the work are able to attract hot women.
If he's short he can have a great physique
If he's not physically attractive he can be rich
If he has a dull personality he can be tall.
These are all ways men can over come their deficiencies to get more woman. Flip it though if a woman is fat and ugly there's nothing she can do.

[KimmySchmit]

Well if he's older than say 40 he becomes less physically attractive to women regardless of his age. Like no young woman wants some fossil huffing and puffing on top of her.
If he has a great physique but is short he's still short.
Yes a dull personality can be compensated by being tall.
As for being fat and ugly. In America I've seen fat ugly women with tall hot guys with six packs.

[Vegasrunner]

@kimmyschmit Actually no. The guy has to obviously do the work, but men aren't judged on their attractiveness the way woman are. They are judged on their achievements so as long as a 40 yro man has status and money he'll have no problem getting hot women. Unfortunately you're making the mistake of thinking like a woman. Once you get old, there's no way to make up for it, thats why its important for you to try to attract the best guy you can while you're young. In America a fat ugly women may get an attractive guy to penetrate her but he's not going to date her.

[KimmySchmit]

Plenty of attractive men in America with obese women. I suppose because the obesity rate is so high they've no choice.
If a guy in his 40s is wealthy he will attract a hot woman but if she's that superficial then she's likely with the hot younger gardener, tennis coach, personal trainer etc.

[Vegasrunner]

@kimmyschmit Not really. Name one publicly successful mam who has wifed a fat woman? All women are superficial, that just part of being a woman, besides most woman aren't giving up being w/ a HV man to be with yhe Gardner because they understand how easy it is for them to be replaced.

[KimmySchmit]

They are sleeping with the handsome gardener behind their husband's backs.
Your talking about successful men, most men are of average success. Im an average woman, the difference is that instead of say a 5 or 6 like I would be back home im an 8 or 9 here in the US because im not obese.

[Vegasrunner]

@kimmyschmit Thats mostly airy tales that people tell women to sell romance novels. In realty most women aren't risking losing a HV man to have sex w/ a laborer, it also presupposes that the gardner is this attractive men that women all want to sleep. My Gardner is 5'4 60 years old and has English as a second language. You're kinda making up delusional fairytales based on limited to no life experience. Yes most men are average which is why once you get into the top 20% you can have your pick of women.

[KimmySchmit]

They are. They get bored, divorce and get half along with pension, alimony, possibly the family home and 18 years of child support.
there's a reason why the richest women in America are divorcees (apart from oprah or Mariah Carey)

[Vegasrunner]

@kimmyschmit Thats why you dont marry them easy fix, or you do what Dak Prescott just did make them sign a prenup and if they refuse, just dump them.
I agree most women aren't good at building wealth without the help of a man.

[KimmySchmit]

Pre nups aren't ironclad. You get the wrong judge and they are invalidated.

[Vegasrunner]

@kimmyschmit I agree, I tell guys to avoid marriage all together which is what Prescot did. As you pointed out there's no logical reason for me to get married

[KimmySchmit]

I dont follow the sportsball but I looked this Dak Prescott fella up and it appears he was getting married but she discovered he was cheating and dumped him. They have two daughters so she will likely get a good amount of child support and fame. she's also older than him which i found surprising and well educated. I could honestly see them getting back together and getting married with a more favourable prenup or see her with another player or athlete or celebrity as women in those circles seem to bounce around in relationships

[KimmySchmit]

Just to note that guys at his level when they get a prenup drawn up, if the marraige ends she isn't walking away with nothing. she's just not getting half, she's either getting a lump sum of his $90 million or a percentage.
Its not like when a guy with s net worth of $800 thousand makes his bride sign a prenup, no this would be for $1-10 million and alimony.
there's a difference between a high value man like this guy Dak Prescott you admire whos worth $90 million, tall, athletic, high staus, young, well educated etc and some guy in hitting 50 thats maybe worth $300 in a life time of work, who own no properties or buisnesses etc

[Vegasrunner]

@kimmyschmit He wasn't cheating. He was banging other women as HV men are going to do. She's a delusional idiot if she didn't know that. Despite that she wanted to go ahead with the marriage but when he presented the prenup she refused and he kicked her to the curb. Child support is for the kids so she doesn't get anything. She can get ran through by other athletes but its unlikely anyone is going to wife her since she already had two kids.

[Vegasrunner]

@kimmyschmit He never married her so that parts not relevant. Like I said I agree with you marriage has no benifit for men, so glad Dak made the smart decision and follow the advice that I provide.

[KimmySchmit]

No. She dumped him after she caught him cheating not because of the prenup because even with the prenup she'd still get paid big if there was a divorce, guess you can't put a price on self respect.
Through child support she will likely end up having a very good income, buy a nice house etc.
Someone will certainly wife her up, not uncommon for these athletes to end up married to women older than them that have kids.
I would bet that they get back together by the end of the month, in the new prenup she will get a bigger cut.

[Vegasrunner]

@kimmyschmit Unfortunately thats false, sorry the media mislead you. He dropped her after she refused to sign the prenup. Someone will wife her up, but unfortunately for her its not going to be a man of value. Back to the streets she goes.

[KimmySchmit]

Reminds me of Hayden Panetire. She was engaged to Wladamir Klistchow a high value man who is athletic, muscular, 6ft6, high status, wealthy, Olympic gold medalist, the then undisputed heavyweight champion of the world and national hero in his home country. She was basically a tv actress in the US. He was 33, she was 19 and they had two daughters. he's worth about $90 million. she's very average looking and he could have choosen basically any woman in Ukraine. she's basically 5ft, skinny and blonde.
Anyway they divorced due to her baggage and drug use, he has full custody. Despite all this she had no problem finding men looking to date her.

[Vegasrunner]

@kimmyschmit She was a young attractive woman obviously men will date her the question os was she able to retain a better man than Klitchko?

[KimmySchmit]

The fact that she got big Wladamir in the first place was a miracle, she's basically just blonde , short with no boobs famous for a role in tv show. No problem getting high status males but you aren't going to retain any good man let along HV man if youve drug problems and mental health problems. there's a reason why he has full custody of his kids, that doesn't happen often even if the father is ridiculously wealthy.

[Vegasrunner]

@kimmyschmit I mean you're naming a lot of things men like. Blonde, skinny pretty enough to be on TV. Obviously those women will have a chance to get a HV man. Statistically single fathers do better raising children anyway so most courts should award custody to the fathers more in my opinion.

[Cyfris]

No... But how you approach can effect your success

[Vegasrunner]

@Cyfris Thats why practice is so important.

[Spencer10]

I would say success comes from being upfront, honest and respectful.

[Vegasrunner]

@Spencer10 Those three things have never led to success how many women have you been with?

[Spencer10]

Well its not a competition. But its been my experience that jerks do not do well with women. Women tend to be more perceptive than men and can see right through BS.

[Vegasrunner]

@Spencer10 If your experience is based of having few women then its irrelevant. Being upfront and honest with women is a sure fire way not to get laid, and it seems like this is what you have actually experienced.

[Spencer10]

Well I tell you what... go out and be dishonest and disrespectful then get back to me how successful you are with women... no matter how many you hit on.

[Vegasrunner]

@Spencer10 That's odd why did you add being disrespectful when that was never previously mentioned, and what part about banging numerous women is disrespectful?

[Staximus]

If you don't look like a movie star