What’s the biggest green flags a woman can show during the talking phase?

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Still-alive · Accepted Answer

Yes these are just as important as red flags in my opinion.

So my three big ones as you know:

Communication: Can you talk about your needs and wants and discuss boundaries in a clear way? Are you able to receive feedback if necessary and are emotionally mature about it? and just an overall mutual respect for boundaries. And also if there's a conflict we can work it out. if we need space we go take it but eventually come back and solve our issues. if yes then yeah major green flag for me!

Empathy: Are you able to show how empathetic you are? Like a lot of women say watch how guys treat service workers and i would agree with that. if they are kind and respectful to others around them thats a green flag. another way to gauge this is when they do things for others with no expectations in return. Major green flag.

Sense of humor: They can both take a joke and can joke around. major plus. i love just joking around often lol.

They aren't the following: racist, bigoted, homophobic, look down on others, mega judgmental. Green flag there.

We can have nice deep conversations about virtually anything. Green Flag

Shared main core values such as how we feel about raising kids, religion or lack there of-can we live with each other despite differences there?

Sexual compatibility isn't really a need but a major plus for me too.

I thinkkkkk thats about it. yeah if most or all these are present... major greenflag! I would feel like we got it down great! Provided they give me the greenlight of course lol.

HawkPerception · Accepted Answer

Femininity. Always welcoming of my help, especially physically. Dressing femininely (in dresses often). Kind, welcoming, and warm vibes. Being soft spoken and not obnoxiously loud. Being able to be goofy. Has no issue with communication and does it frequently. She should be communicating to the point where I don't have to question whether or not she's interested in me.

And most of all... compatible with me personality wise. That means similar views, interests, sense of humor, aligning goals, sexual compatibility, etc.

ohsheeT · Answer

To understand that when talking do most of it with your eyes your body language be real be the true energy you are  As a man I can now hear you and feel you

CalmUntilAbused · Answer

Well, if She does not speak ill of others, that's a big plus. Yes, including Her potential exes. A good relationship with Her father goes a long way, as well. A sense of humour will also help, since I will almost definitely launch a few anti-feminist, potentially slightly sexist jokes at Her during the talking phase to gauge Her reactions. Even if She calls Herself a feminist, if She can also return the playful banter instead of instantly overheating, She is safe (and most likely not an actual feminist).

Lliam · Answer

She showed up looking like she took thought, time and effort into looking her best. She is bright, friendly, charming and slightly deferential in a feminine way. Shows with her body language and conversation that she's interested in me. She is eager to hold hands, hug and even kiss.

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

Being vulnerable and communicating boundaries. But sort of treating it like a negotiation. I'm starting to realize a lot of great relationships break because of things that both people look back on it as silly or even a misunderstanding.

So just being able to talk effectively I think is the biggest green flag on my preflight check

MidnightRivers · Answer

Good question;) thanks for the mention

for me: the biggest one is that she gets on really well with her dad, she's communicative, she's always honest and she always tells me how she feels because i am no mind reader also self confidence!

SAMI_DABBAB · Answer

Clarity and consistency, all I personally want to see is someone who means what they say and are themselves consistently

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

... When she shows me that we're using a similar or compatible lexicon regarding what is a relationship

Anonymous · Answer

For me it's when she is self-confident, assertive, dominant, and likes to take initiative.

shortster · Answer

Interest in who you are; this is best shown by asking questions and then intently listening to the answers. I'm sure that this goes both ways, but I definitely struggle with the first part.

AgentG111 · Answer

That the conversation is real she isn't fake and willing to share and be open and honest about things.

Berethor · Answer

Virginity, maternal instinct and good looks, those are the things that men are wanting.

msc545 · Answer

This may seem like a green flag, but it isn't - It's a red flag. Initial excessive friendliness is a very reliable sign of borderline personality disorder in women.

fish5505_87 · Answer

When she's obviously listening when she is not talking!

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

For me it would be a great personality a great sense of humor being nurturing and attentive

LC75LC71 · Answer

The talking phase encompasses a female's entire life!

NathanDavis · Answer

genuine confidence...

DryGermanGuy · Answer

Having good chemistry is everything!

Anonymous · Answer

I'm not telling you that. That's something you're going to have to learn.

bowenw · Answer

Doesn't just talk about herself.

Grond21 · Answer

Definitely kindness

nudeNhorny · Answer

Beautiful boobs are those in the pic

Anonymous · Answer

Mention of strawberries 😏

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