Would you date the timid, shy type?

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Ms_Facesitter · Accepted Answer

I find it cute, I can't lie. A guy approaching you but he's a nervous wreck. He already won points just with that. It's clearly out of their comfort zone, but they still went out of their way to talk to me. Respect :)

There's this guy at work and he is usually calm and collected, but when I need something from him and talk to him, his voice gets all shaky, I love it.

The guy who I am with is an introvert. He's not shy, but he is reserved and to himself. Towards other people, not with me. And that means that over time, I managed to break down through his shell and have him show me the real him. A side nobody else gets to see. There's beauty in that, and for me even a bit of pride :p

I honestly don't think that an introvert who is shy is that much different from my man. They just need the right people to feel comfortable with. I also don't like loud and obnoxious people, so the quiet guys are actually the ones who I notice first.

Simslover92 · Accepted Answer

Yes I would as long as it's not to the point that they can't communicate with me or others when they need to. Like if they are just always quiet and don't make an effort to keep up with the conversation then it's probably a no for me then.

Iron_Man · Accepted Answer

They don’t do anything you’ve gotta do all the work make all the plans and at dinner it’s like talking to yourself and she just nods her head once in a while, not very intelligent those kind of people and all they can do is nod thier head and say yeah or OK or no thanks. It’s like is there another side to them or is this the real person that I’m dealing with? Basically they’re boring as heck. But I don’t want somebody that is gonna be a nonstop talker that never shuts up either. Just stimulate my brain and then you’ll be OK and talk well enough

OneViewpoint · Accepted Answer

Probably not. An introvert is fine. A quiet thinker is fantastic. But fear driven shyness and being too timid to speak up for yourself is a constant drain on my energy.

Beckybooboo · Answer

If there's an initial attraction, sure but if their behavior doesn't change as the relationship grows, that could be a problem.

Abbycado · Answer

I voted as long as it isn't extreme. I am a social person.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Nah, we would clash in social situations.

Anonymous · Answer

Probably not. Most women who say they're shy aren't shy. They're just too narcissistic to put themselves out there. It's very unlikely I'm going to date a woman unwilling to risk anything.

Anonymous · Answer

My ideal woman and any past women I've been into usually have these qualities 😅👀 without lacking a go-getter attitude

jahaims · Answer

No, that means they lack confidence which is just extra baggage

Anonymous · Answer

No, I'm shy and timid type, so it would be impossible, I need a dominant and self-confident girl who takes initiative.

queenofcardio · Answer

It's not my preference but it depends

BrittneyHl · Answer

Yea because I'm timid and shy so :)

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