Girls, would you date a shy guy? Why?

Question

I used to be a shy guy many moons ago, I found that some girls liked to advance on me as they told me that they see hot vunerble shy guys as easy targets and no threat to them. But I want to know your reason

Yes

No

I'm horny 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️

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Answer 1

Nxtawm | 189 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

Depends on what type of shy you mean, I said no tho. Cause I think someone more outgoing would be more down to new experiences or would even push me to do new things. Plus feel like a shy guy can be a "yes man" or like I'd often have to take the initiative. Shy guys are nice but I prefer a more active person, they are usually more open

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Ronald_25

+1 y
That's fair, baby sunglasses🤷🏽‍♂️ 👶🕶️
Nxtawm

+1 y
Yeah I'm a 10 outta 10 babe 😂😂
Ronald_25

+1 y
Err...🤔🤣

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Ronald_25

That's fair, baby sunglasses🤷🏽‍♂️ 👶🕶️

Answer 3

Nxtawm

Yeah I'm a 10 outta 10 babe 😂😂

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Ronald_25

Err...🤔🤣

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purplepoppy | 653 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

Guys are often shy in public but very open and relaxed in private or with those they know well

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Ronald_25

+1 y
See when I was a teenager, I was shy in private and in a bedroom with a girl too, a lot had to be taught to me, for me to become the person I am today. But I usually see girls going for confident and assertive guys rather than shy scared teenagers.

That's another thing, till the age of 20, I was scared of girls 🤷🏽‍♂️ I was very attractive, but also very shy and scared to talk to girls, so I attracted the confident dominant types and now that's all the type that interest me 🤷🏽‍♂️ does that make me damaged?

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Ronald_25

See when I was a teenager, I was shy in private and in a bedroom with a girl too, a lot had to be taught to me, for me to become the person I am today. But I usually see girls going for confident and assertive guys rather than shy scared teenagers.

That's another thing, till the age of 20, I was scared of girls 🤷🏽‍♂️ I was very attractive, but also very shy and scared to talk to girls, so I attracted the confident dominant types and now that's all the type that interest me 🤷🏽‍♂️ does that make me damaged?

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WhiteShoulder

Guru

I would if I really liked him. I have. But not because he was vulnerable.

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Ronald_25

+1 y
So is him being shy was a turn on or turn off?
WhiteShoulder

+1 y
Neither. I liked him because he was really nice and very cute and a couple years older and he taught me a lot about gaming.
WhiteShoulder

+1 y
And he was my female bff’s ex (she was cool with it)
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Ronald_25

+1 y
Huh, sounds like me in my teen years. For me it's a turn off if a girl is shy, and a huge turn on if she's loud, energetic and confident. Is that unfair on my part?
WhiteShoulder

+1 y
No. That’s fine. You like what you like.
Ronald_25

+1 y
Cool 😊 what do you like?

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Ronald_25

So is him being shy was a turn on or turn off?

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WhiteShoulder

Neither. I liked him because he was really nice and very cute and a couple years older and he taught me a lot about gaming.

Answer 10

WhiteShoulder

And he was my female bff’s ex (she was cool with it)

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Ronald_25

Huh, sounds like me in my teen years. For me it's a turn off if a girl is shy, and a huge turn on if she's loud, energetic and confident. Is that unfair on my part?

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WhiteShoulder

No. That’s fine. You like what you like.

Answer 13

Ronald_25

Cool 😊 what do you like?

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arabgoddess

Yoda

Love them and adore them!
🎶 I don't want no fly guy.. I just want a shy guy 🎶

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Ronald_25

+1 y
What about their shyness attracts you?
arabgoddess

+1 y
That they're humble and not so into themselves or seeking attention from everyone
Ronald_25

+1 y
Lol, in that case, thank you for confirming that I'm definitely not shy anymore 🤣
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arabgoddess

+1 y
Thank God lol
Ronald_25

+1 y
Though I loved the 'shy guy - assertive girl' dynamic, very hot 😊🔥🔥, when interacting with other men, shy guys aren't as loved 🤷🏽‍♂️ they're seen as meek, pussies etc. It's a shame really, but what is life without lessons?

Now when I'm walking around with the Mrs, I out Alpha the Alpha 💪🏽, but as soon as we're in the bedroom, she's the Alpha 😏, I make sure of it 😈
arabgoddess

+1 y
Lololol you're funny
Ronald_25

+1 y
😏😏😏

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Ronald_25

What about their shyness attracts you?

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arabgoddess

That they're humble and not so into themselves or seeking attention from everyone

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Ronald_25

Lol, in that case, thank you for confirming that I'm definitely not shy anymore 🤣

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arabgoddess

Thank God lol

Answer 19

Ronald_25

Though I loved the 'shy guy - assertive girl' dynamic, very hot 😊🔥🔥, when interacting with other men, shy guys aren't as loved 🤷🏽‍♂️ they're seen as meek, pussies etc. It's a shame really, but what is life without lessons?

Now when I'm walking around with the Mrs, I out Alpha the Alpha 💪🏽, but as soon as we're in the bedroom, she's the Alpha 😏, I make sure of it 😈