Would you date someone with 7 kids?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

No, never. A lot of men would never date a single mother w one kid. To ask for a man to date a single mother w 7 kids, you’re asking for a miracle. This isn’t a relationship. It’s more so a cry for help on her part. There’s no benefit in it for the man. He’s going to be expected to oeuvre for those kids unless she’s making 7 figures a year, he’s going to be pulling more than half the weight of the cart. It’s an L for a man. I’m willing to bet too that those 7 kids aren’t all from one man. Plus if I’m thinking about what happened? She got pregnant every years? That’s not good. For a girl to be single, at that age w 7 kids tells me there something else wrong w her that’s why none of these babies’ daddies stayed w her.

AviatorTom · Accepted Answer

I'm married and am not dating material. If I was much younger, single, and she was attractive and we got along well, I'd have no problem dating a woman with 7 kids. It would be very interesting.

MontBlanc · Accepted Answer

Dating someone with 7 kids isn’t about the number, it’s about responsibility, character, and how ready someone is to give and nurture love.

If that’s genuine, age or quantity doesn’t matter.

But if someone’s mindset is careless, disrespectful, or selfish, then no number of kids or circumstances would make them worthy of real connection.

Summeroflove · Answer

Never say never….. but probably not. Not judging her everyone’s situation is different but that would be a lot.

DishLady · Answer

Dear Lord… no, that’s a bit past my threshold for chaos, even if they’re all wonderful people.

Zack-Bann · Answer

If the kids are adults or at least old enough to be self sufficient and she’s not looking for a father figure to them then I might date her very privately without their lives

But I’m definitely not getting involved with a whole family like that.

Even if it’s just one kid.
I prefer to have kids of my own not raise someone else’s

Purpleronnie · Answer

Imagining for a second that I’m even in the dating game , which I’m not ( thankfully 🙏 ) it would have to be something close to love at first sight before I would even consider dating a woman who had any offspring younger than 21 that lived with her.

I dont want to parent anyone ever , period !

NoDecision · Answer

Absolutely not! Their kids will always come first, as is should be, but that makes it hard to get the attention from them when they are always answering the phone from one of them or when checking in on them.

JaxxonBarred · Answer

Not a good idea if we are being realistic. If you get with someone and gotta take of maybe 4 kids that aren't your own it can work. But 7? It's unrealistic to create significant relationships with all 7 children who for worse are not even your own and you didn't raise them from the start so this is a hard no.

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

Well, I suspect that someone with 7 kids would be some kind of HyperChristian, that or... Elon Musk.  Neither of them would look at me, and I would reciprocate.

Master_Debator · Answer

What does date mean to you? Fucking? Hanging out? Being courted for potential marriage?  I have different answers depending on wtf you mean by "date."

Anonymous · Answer

Nope I am not a charity, I never got to have any relationship, any love, and no sex and suddenly expected to take in 8 people. To provide that much is not something I would do.

Oh if I had like 3-4 relationship and many of them have a child. I won't ever think twice.
But as a virgin, unloved and uncared person this planet I won't.

LadyBecks · Answer

Whoa, that's a lot of kids and I really like kids! I'm married and past the dating age, but if I wasn't, I still think I'd pass.

SunnyCaliGirl · Answer

I do not have the finical stability to help support 7 kids, that would have to be a working parents household to support 7 children.
So it’s a No for me, but I do love kids I’d rather nanny for 7 children

zagor · Answer

No I would not. I was once at a singles event and a woman asked me if I would date a woman with kids. I told her I would consider dating a woman with a kid or two. She said, how about 5? End of convo.

WhitneySnow · Answer

Probably not. That’s a lot of kids. Luckily most people in the West don’t have that many.

Miristheiss · Answer

Noooooooooooooo. I wouldn't date someone with 1 kid.

supercutebutt · Answer

If the offspring are 18 and over and kinda hot, sure.

Nikki1989 · Answer

I'm married but yes, I would be fine with that.

beenherebefore · Answer

I love kids but seven kids? That's a LOT of kids. It's a No for me.

HighValue · Answer

No. Any kids at all is a deal breaker. Single mothers have no value to me in any way.

slatyb · Answer

How old are they? Still at home? Unlikely, but it's possible. I generally like children.

Still-alive · Answer

probably not unless i really reeeeeally liked her

RHK36 · Answer

I'd have a think about it for 1 kid. 7 is madness. Tells me her critical thinking and gut instincts are god awful. The same is for both genders.

MikeTheBartender · Answer

I have a vasectomy and don't even want my own kids so that would be a hard no for me.

MrChinaski · Answer

I don't think I could, in all honesty, offer what she needs.

Crankor · Answer

Only chance would be if they can support them all themselves. But that would be overwhelming for anyone

REDBRA36c · Answer

No. But only if I were about 20 years older than her oldest and at most 5 years older than her.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

I hope I wouldn’t.

HawkPerception · Answer

Most definitely not me.

ilaypipe · Answer

No because they most likely don't have cable TV at there place and why I figure is why they have, that many kids ! And I don't wanna miss the game if I'm at thee place lol

brezzybaby · Answer

I dont think i would because thats 7 heads that get attention before i do

Anonymous · Answer

Yep and if daughters are of age and moms ok or doesn’t know do the girls and mom or all at the same time.

dragoblack · Answer

Nope, absolutely not. 1 is enough, any more than that is too much.

foxsquirrell · Answer

Even 10 kids, as long as she is not expecting me to support her children.

Starlux · Answer

Absolutely not, there would be no time to yourself anymore. Especially in this economy.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Unfortunately I wouldn't. Sorry but I have to be honest

Anonymous · Answer

Probably not, unless she's exactly my type of girl.

queenofcardio · Answer

I wouldn't even date someone with one kid.

thegreenyogi · Answer

I'd definitely think twice about that one.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

No way in Hades.

Finchie40 · Answer

No, 7 way too many

Cyfris · Answer

Nope. Not for a million bucks.

lilBigPotato · Answer

Not gonna happen.

jazzy34 · Answer

No, I wouldn't. I don't want a pre-made family.

exitseven · Answer

No, its too much.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

Dayum that's a lot of kids

Massageman · Answer

not even if I were single.

RingOfFire · Answer

I draw the line at 6.5.

Zionne · Answer

there's someone who can do that, but it ain't me

Anonymous · Answer

Only if they were my kids too.

Lisa_grl · Answer

If it was Elon, oh wait...

jahaims · Answer

No, I'm not mentally ill

shortster · Answer

Not unless she wanted at least 8 more.

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

H**L to the NO !!!

msc545 · Answer

Of course not.

Smegskull · Answer

Maybe if she is a widow but it's a tall ask.

Sammy098 · Answer

Nope. I wouldn't date anyone with a kid

Amur8711 · Answer

Probably not, thats a lot of kids

AcidMan · Answer

Why not but will not marry her

robocop666 · Answer

can she suck dick? then yeah

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

Fuck no. Jesus H Christ

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