I wouldn't date someone with 1 kid if the kid is i need of support.
You don't finish another man's videogame and you don't raise another man's kid.
And frankly we all talk about being mature and stepping up but deep down no man wants his kids raised by another man problem is we can't control who women bring into their lives after a separation.
Still if it was less common for men to take on other men's kids then women wouldn't instigate 80% of divorces as they would have no golden parachute waiting for them.
All and all I think it's a bad practice to pick up the slack of someone else.
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no, 9 is my limit
Isn't one kid bad enough? 10 is a walking red flag! 😂
More power to those of you stupid, I mean, brave enough to be with a partner like that! That's real love (and stupidity).
If they grown and independently on their own, maybe… If not hell HELL NO!!!
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I like kids but do not like giving birth so if I adopted somebody else's kids I would get both benefits. But some kids hate you if you did not give birth to them so it would depend on how I'm treated by them.
Are they all grown and self supporting?
Is this a serious question? Hell no. Not even if they are all grown up!
I'm over 50. If they were all grown and living on their own, sure. If she still had little ones at the house, no. If they were all over 18 and one or two were living at home for school or some such, perhaps.
Yep if i ever became single again I'd only ever consider dating single moms (obviously if they were into women too). The amount of kids wouldn't matter to me
I used to want 12, but thats only if i wouldve started at like 18 and had them all between then and 30. I’m closing in on 30, so i’d be lucky to pop out 1 or 2 at this rate. I would date a single parent of 1, but the kid needs to be pottytrained.
No.
I like kids. But I also want my freedom.Not if i had leprosy and the Word of God was hidden beside her cervix. WAY too much baggage going on there.
Now if she was banging I'd take her to a motel for the night.
Umm...
I wouldn't even date someone who has just one let alone 10.
I won’t date a single dad even with one kid, leave alone 10.
Nope, 10 kids is too much, I would have hard time remembering all of their names and we could only bond with team games, cause how could I bond with 10 kids one by one, that’s like a full time job.
If they are grown and on their own, maybe. Little ones running around the house, big pass on that
I don't want to date any single mom, let alone a single mom that have 10 kids, so no thanks.
I love kids, but 10 would be a handful to deal with.
No. I'd want my own family and not someone else's sperm samples.
I can't think of a normal person who has 10 kids and I can't. So it's a no for me.
A single mother with 10 kids? Well someone has not made very smart life decisions. I definitely would not.
At that point in your life stick with the man you had all them kids with. No man is his right mind is going to stick around for that
Fuck no.. And especially fuck no if they are by different dads.
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