Do you NEED those butterflies in order to want to date someone?

[Still-alive]

Yes if i don't have those butterflies i can't date someone

No i can still date someone even if i don't get the butterflies

The butterflies are overrated anyways!

No one suspects the butterfly!

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Not for dating, I give a chance to people who are interesting for me…

But I do need some tiny butterflies to go past date 2… It’s my usual benchmark to lose interest.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

🦋.

Though I'm not sure how to define dating here, if you mean talking/courtship phase then yes, I certainly need those butterflies to do anything at all. I mean they are THE drive, without it I'd feel no incentive to experience this first phase.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

[MrChinaski]

There needs to be some intrigue. Some feeling that you are going to learn something important about yourself, them and the world when you dive in. I trust my feelings.

[ElenaSeluna]

Butterflies and more…

[Still-alive]

i found your butterflies!

[ElenaSeluna]

Where 😄

[Still-alive]

*gets out x-ray goggles* right there in the tummy lol

[VioletHaze]

I don't think so. Butterflies usually accompany when you are fluttered or nervous (excited but nervous). If you feel safe and calm around someone, that's more of an indicator, so long as you genuinely feel attracted to them.

[queenofcardio]

I don't need it but I do find it's meaningful when you get them. Some relationship form from friendship so there's familiarity there..

Some sort of physical attraction is a must for me to date someone.

[thegreenyogi]

Some call it butterflies, some call it chemistry whole others call it that spark. Yes I think you have to feel something like that for a first date.

[ariadneR]

My man have been together for 7 years. I still get butterflies when he calls

[fonduegirl]

Its next to impossible to excite me. Anybody who does is worth keeping around

[Xawyx-2]

Yes, if there aren't any butterflies, I'm not dating :P

[Zionne]

yes. i can't date a guy randomly

[LiamJHayden]

I do not remember ever getting butterflies.

[butterly248]

Butterfly