How do guys act around a girl they like, but not enough to pursue?

[Anonymous]

As much as I hate to admit it I think that's what's happening here.

He likes me but not enough to actually pursue.

This is assuming he is single.

[HollyK21]

Then stop waiting on him to make a move and do it yourself. Even if you don’t know how he feels, you know how you feel, so act on that. For as much as you fear rejection or being wrong about this, you have to acknowledge that the guy you like could feel the same way, yet you’re expecting him to overcome it in order to approach you, right? So have the same energy about yourself.

[Asker]

I fear he likes another girl more than me.

[HollyK21]

Respectfully it doesn’t even sound like you’ve confirmed he likes you, let alone someone else. That’s why I say it’s best to act on how you know you feel. The worst he could say is No, and while that may hurt your feelings it’s not gonna kill you. Is this guy in a place where you see him pretty often or regularly?

[Asker]

No although I used to see him in person I don't anymore.

[HollyK21]

Well, if you don’t see him anymore then it’s even more reason to just make a move.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

He makes you feel - CONFUSED…

So if you ever find yourself in a situation where you are - confused, run!

He will likely be your dream man!!!

Still, run!

Because the only man worth spending years with is the one who makes you feel at peace, leading with clarity.

Everyone else, as sparkly, hot as shiny as they can be - are the unhealthy distractions you shouldn’t waste your precious time on.

[msc545]

And wisdom finally emerges. I'm impressed.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

@msc545 Everything has it’s time… 27 was still young for that wisdom.

[msc545]

Your expectation that men pursue you is unreasonable. If you are interested in a man, you better do the pursuit yourself at this point in history.

[msc545]

Most men are completely sick of the idea of pursuing women because we don't like being rejected, particularly in public, because it's too goddamn painful. See if you can understand that a little bit. What I'm saying is, we're not going to take the risk anymore. It's your problem.

[Alex-Snow]

You probably will see signs of flirting. Maybe ask him out if you are interested. Your thoughts?

[Anonymous]

Make a move on him. I've liked a girl so much, I got anxious around her.

[Daytoday79]

I try to hide my boner

[Anonymous]

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