How do guys act around a girl that they find attractive?

[Anonymous]

Guys,

How do you act around a girl that you find attractive? Do you usually have you bestie go say hi? How do you flirt or let her know if you sent sure how she feels?

[MrOracle]

Guys who are desirable and they know it (very physically attractive, or wealthy, or a celeb) will often act aloof - they'll acknowledge you, but not pay attention to you - they're playing hard-to-get to see how hard you are willing to work.

Guys with plenty of confidence tend to flirt.

Average guys, and certainly below-average guys, tend to lack confidence, and so they'll often stare from across the room, but they won't approach because they are afraid of being shot down/rejected. They will often keep the girl in their line-of-site, but they'll usually keep their distance, hoping SHE will give him some sign of interest first, which will make him more confident that he won't be rejected.

[Mgoods]

This should be MHO.

[Asker]

Thanks. I did notice that... Plus he hung around a long time for seemingly no reason... playing with some kids too (I work with kids and love them, common knowledge)

[Modernhippy]

depends on age and how confident they are. if younger they act weird, and there is really no sure way to say that just weird. like may be show-offy or may be timid. if more confident they treat u like a normal person.

[gaggleii]

Depends on the guy. Some guys are confident, some are shy. I personally have no trouble flirting with a girl I find attractive but that may not be the case with other guys.

[front2back]

Stupid. We act stupid.

"Hi, uh... Sara--I MEAN SYDNEY! How was your day, today? :X"

[Asker]

By stupid does taking an object you are holding and flipping it back and forth count?