Well, most of the time, I dealt with the second option. (Not only not being interested (which is ok), but disgust, horror, offense at the idea. Even if in a few cases I wasn’t interested, but they just suddenly got the idea that I was.
Now for me, if I get shot down or rejected, I don’t hold a grudge. I could still talk to them and be respectful. But when I kindly acknowledge her, I usually get open contempt and hostility. It’s weird.
But I don’t see how women act around guys they’re not interested in who they still respect (or maybe it’s pity). My guess is it’s just weirdly awkward and she eventually gets over being awkward or embarrassed… or maybe the guy doesn’t talk to her and it just gets worse and worse until they avoid each other and someone moves away or something. I usually only see open disrespect.
There’s been once or twice when they haven’t been interested, but surprisingly, they didn’t make it into a huge offense that I was interested. It’s kinda nice. I can joke with her. I’m friendly, maybe give her a hug, but it doesn’t mean anything past friendship. I moved on quickly.
Now, once or twice it happened where she was supposedly interested back… i got some pretty subtle flirting until I decided to ask her out (that doesn’t always mean it went anywhere). So I would assume it’s one of those options. You just have to see which one it is.
Showing off, giggling a lot to catch your attention to her, being a mother Teresa or kind around them.
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