What's the ethical girlfriend limit for a guy who is 33 years old?

[Anonymous]

Like how many ages or years is the ethical limit in your book?

[Abbycado]

18 and consenting. You should look closer to your age for relatability. An eighteen year old is still figure things out in life. Just a piece of advice.

[Asker]

Yeah. My limit is like 20+ in my book.

[Abbycado]

I think more of how she has her life together. Can she contribute to a relationship like you can? It’s never equal but at least should be close.

Not talking just money but emotional and intellectual aspects.

[Asker]

For example when I talk to a even 25 years old girls sometimes, they sound a little childhish to me. Then I don't feel myself good. And that happens with 18-19 years old girls a lot. But sometimes even a 20-22 yo girl is intellectual and mature to me

[Abbycado]

Hey, go with the gut instinct.

[HighValue]

What is important is to have compatible morals, compatible long term life goals, and to have at least a couple things in common that you enjoy doing together.

[MattBlair21]

The 'half you age, plus seven' saying is kind of reasonable. So 23 and up in your situation.

[Anonymous]

If she's 18 or older and she's ok with a 33 year old then who is anyone else to say it's not ok?

[Nikki1989]

There’s no magic number — just the responsibility to ensure the relationship is healthy for both people. Any relationship between two consenting adults can be ethical — as long as there is no exploitation or manipulation.

[Anonymous]

If you can get an 18 year old girlfriend without lying to her, then go for it

[888theGreat]

I think 15 to 20 years today. Asian women prefer older guys

[Anonymous]

It's fine if she is 18 years old or older.

[Zionne]

20-25 year old