Why have I never gotten a goodnight kiss from guys at my age (28)?

[Sugar100]

I’m 28 and never had a good night kiss. One guy I dated would just give me a side hug , never wrap both arms around me. Any other guys no goodbye kiss. It was always my dream.
I met a guy very young and he gave me 3 goodnight kisses and it was a sweet feeling I never experienced before.
im 28 but like a 18 year old girl that never had a first boyfriend. 😔

[SueShe]

I don't know if there is a hidden meaning to a "goodnight kiss" or if it is meant literally. If I check the definition of "goodnight kiss" in the dictionary, I get the following result:

"a kiss given to a person before going home or going to sleep"

Also, it does not specify if that kiss is one on the cheek (s) or on the lips. Now, the urban dictionary may state something different that I cannot check since my browser settings and child protection program prevent the page to open, meaning that there might be something more deviant to that simple explanation above.

As to why you have never received a platonic goodnight kiss, we can only speculate. Perhaps that you are always with the wrong persons or that they are not in the mood for a goodnight kiss. Whatever the reason may be, you should not feel bad about it. Better not receive one rather than to get one from someone that wants more than what you are ready to give.

[William7489]

I’m so sorry to hear about your experience. Why is this occurring? You’d have to tell everyone a little bit more about yourself before we could really break it down. Do you think you try too hard? Or maybe you don’t try hard enough, like getting out and going places and meeting people. I really don’t know but I’m sorry you’re going through a tough time.

[Sugar100]

Well guys treat me bad. I get told I’m too nice. And see good guys treat bad girls good like a princess.

Anyways, I finally got my good night kiss from this new guy that’s young. So that’s all that matters

[AgentG111]

Depends on whom you are dating and how you interact with them. Just a date, are they religious or are they looking for hookups and when it's no they are polite and leave quick

[Jerre]

What would your reaction be if his goodnight kiss, holding you tight, his tongue in your mouth?

[Sugar100]

His goodnight kiss wasn’t like that. It was sweet and lingering

[Jerre]

Usually gives me a boner

[LEGENDARY4200]

Maybe you should take the initiative for the kiss

[Sugar100]

No the guys I met in past would be assholes. This guy himself gave me the goodnight kiss and it was the most special thing I ever felt in my life.

[Sugar100]

For almost 30 years I been dreaming of what it’s like have a goodnight kiss

[LEGENDARY4200]

Alright good for you

[Sugar100]

But I’m sad cuz y I deserved wait almost 30 years for a goodnight kiss? Y I cudnt have it at age 15,16,18,23? So many years wasted 😔

[Sugar100]

Still haven’t held hands with a boy in a public date or met family.

[LEGENDARY4200]

That's too bad. Where do you live?