How true is the phrase ‘you lose money chasing women but never lose a woman chasing money’?

[Vegasrunner]

[Summeroflove]

COMPLETELY FALSE…. Tons of men out there cannot see they’re being used for money and it’s not just men who are rich. Because plenty of women when they can’t find a billionaire will prey on men who are making ends meet to fund their lifestyle.

These women don’t have a genuine connection to you some are better at faking then others. But these women will cheat and as soon as they find what they perceive to be better. Such as, a man who makes more money, or even a man who makes less but she feels more attracted to. She will leave. Because this happens.

If you pursue superficial relationships you end up with what you deserve.

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove TY for sharing, what does this have to do with the question asked?

[Summeroflove]

That you won’t loose women. You will

[Summeroflove]

And the women into you because of your money aren’t the women you want around.

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove Doesn't seem to make logical sense. How can you lose woman by focusing on money?

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove why dont you want hot women around?

[Summeroflove]

There are dudes who are broke and can be around attractive women. Also quality beats quantity.

[Summeroflove]

Well being too money focused can chase off women wanting to build a relationship if you’re too busy. Again…. If a woman wants you for your money. That woman will eventually probably leave.

[Summeroflove]

If you loose your money. If she finds a man with more money. As well as cheating on other men she finds physically attractive but maybe they don’t have as much money. So she wouldn’t pick them long term.

That happens

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove Perhaps but not as many as a wealthy man. True if you have money you can attract quality in quanity.

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove If you lost your money you wouldn't be a man with money.

[Summeroflove]

And you can not have money and attract quality as well. Without sifting through crap.

Men with money need to be especially careful

[Summeroflove]

That’s all.

[Summeroflove]

Well obviously not if you lost it. But it can happen to anyone is the point. And then what? All the women you got around want you for your money

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove You would have to over compensate in another area, be tall, attractive, charming etc. Thats one of the benifits for men, they have a multitude of ways to attract women, however as the saying goes you can lose a lost of money focusing on women.

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove Actually no, it can only happen to guys like yourself who aren't good with women. The point is if you focus on bettering yourself you'll naturally attract women.

[Summeroflove]

If you focus on the wrong women and blow your money on them. Absolutely

[Summeroflove]

I’ve never had a issue with women

[Summeroflove]

That’s the thing. Even when I’ve worked menial jobs I’ve been able to attract women. If all a dude has for him is money

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove I think the point of the phrase is you shouldn't focus on women at all.

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove Reall, how many have you been with?

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove Thats because men are able to compensate for deficiencies, women can't.

[Summeroflove]

Why do you care so much about how many women I’ve been with. I don’t sleep around like some miserable people do but I could very easily if I wanted to. But that’s cheap.

There are me with and without money who are able to have casual sex if that’s what you’re asking. But that isn’t really a relationship. But real relationships aren’t built on money alone

[Summeroflove]

And if you think that way. That’s on you….. But when you get used and cheated on. It’s on you.

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove Its a metric that validates if your advice has merit. If a woman isn't having sex w/ you then you're not getting her most important commodity, if you're unable to do this as a man then your advice has no merit. To claim you could "easily do" something you've fails to do is also disingenuous.

[Summeroflove]

Lmao sex isn’t a woman’s most important commodity. If all you’re looking for is sex then you’re going to find women who have nothing to offer but sex. YEP! And all used up too. Gross dude

[Summeroflove]

This is the pathetic behavior of low value people who put everything on sex. They will never have companionship with someone or be in a relationship that contributes to one another.

As long as you’re getting sex. Who cares if she has nothing else to offer.

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove To men sex is a woman's most important commodity. Think about it like this if you and your buddy was friends with the same girl, but he had sex with her whenever he wanted while you sat around and listened to her problems, who would be considered more successful with her?

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove Um were men, or at least I assumed you were one. Companiship is for women and beta males. You spend your time around woman you're not having sex with?

[Smart_Monk]

Chasing both kills happiness. ㅤ

Hell, chasing love kills happiness.

I'm starting to get repetitive with this but it seems necessary: women are a "what". Money is a "what". Love is a "what". Emotional intelligence is a "what".

As long as you chase "what" you will be lonely.

You need to chase "who" to be happy.

[Vegasrunner]

@smart_monk Lol, that works when you are a child in the adult world you need money.

[Smart_Monk]

When you care for someone you are thrilled to stay awake 20 hours per day making money to help them.

[Vegasrunner]

@smart_monk Agreed. That someone should be yourself.