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You know what lol in the beginning i chase woman then i realized it was waste time and really consuming. Now is the opposite but now i just listen and what are their intentions. Mostly females that I dated failed lol 🤷♂️ because they are hungry for the 💰. Is it their fault, nope. Is my fault for falling into those type of females and probably i am missing a detail that i must pay attention. Will i have the awesome female some day, i don't lose hopes.
Which most rich man are not use to dating and waiting because they always want to know outcome instantly instead waiting and waiting just to say "naaaa to much time just to get you in bed 😂". They go straight to rentals.
I was one of them with money you can do whatever. Still doesn't make you happy. Yes, in the beginning you feel like that was easy. Then gets to a point you feel like wtf I am doing? I feel empty, like not happy. I am wasting all this amount when i can use it for something better help others like give a job that will benefit my business and produce more, able to hire more people. Dating or girlfriend doesn't cross in your mind instead where to invest more for your business.
Few years ago i was sitting and thinking 🤔 is the reason why rich people feel trapped they can buy anything, once they saw the entire world they feel bored. They are focused so much inner satisfaction, need and selfish. It gets to the point they want to suicide, get into drugs or drinking problem and even prostitution.
When you start opening jobs. You no longer see the richness. Instead you see helping people have a job and they get paid to bring food to their house and bills. You see how they take vacations and use that earn money to make their family members happy by either visiting local or broad. You see their smiles on pictures with their family members.
That is what makes me happy 😁.
As a general trend that may be correct, but not for all men.
For most of my life I have had more money that most, but until later after I passed the age of 30 female interest was close to zero.
I lost count of the number of women who rejected my approaches (in often unpleasant ways) when I was young.
After age 30 I realised that I was engaged in a futile quest, so I stopped approaching, unless I had got to know the female and she had impressed me.
My rejection rate for the past 33 years stands at 100 per cent.
I still ask myself why I bother trying.
Plenty of women show interest, but without exception I would rather throw myself into a woodchipper than touch a female of another race. The white women who come sniffing around are one or more of: batshit insane, tattooed, pierced, fat, leftards, or looking for a mark who can be asset stripped in the Family Court.
I have been told often that I am good looking. I also have a net worth that is in multiple seven figures and my annual income is six figures, but the only women in my bed are my cats.
Money, good looks and a taste for the finer things no doubt help, but some men are so far from what women want that they will be borderline incels for life.
Always the friend and sometimes the protector, seldom their lover.
Some of it's true and some false. Because even men with money have to chase women sometimes. But men with money often will have gold diggers hanging around. Plus not all men without money have to chase. Both of my long term relationships didn't have money and didn't have to chase me. Also my sons girlfriend actually asked him out. And he's not racking in the bucks.
Growing up with my girlfriends money never seemed to be a priority when dating guys. So I have a hard time relating to people saying that it is a woman's priority.
I know rich guys that can’t get dates cause they won’t share their money with their girls and do not have character or personality or charm or good looks to make up for being stingy as a date.
@WAT88 I think of the relationship as a covenant, If you want her to invest her body and youth and fertility and future children into the relationship. You have to show her you are willing to sacrifice just as much as she does, because when it comes to raising children, the woman always sacrifices more than the woman since she gets pregnant and breastfeeds them.
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I'm an ugly fat guy, and there have been times when I was broke. But I could still get girls - not any girl I wanted, but I could get a girl that I liked, even when I was broke.
How? Because I was confident, outgoing, smart, funny, and direct. Again, there were plenty of women who dismissed me due to looks or lack of money, but there were enough who appreciated what I had to offer that I was rarely alone when I didn't want to be.
Do shallow, money-focused women exist? Sure, but they are easy to identify and avoid, and there are enough other women that you can get one if you have at least SOMETHING to offer that at least some women value.
The former - false.
The latter - true.
Just because you pursue women does not indicate and is not an indicator that you're broke. That's just silly. If you have some game, you can snag women all up and down the gamut of the dating pool.
Now, the guys that chase money, it has to be assumed they HAVE money, and they are THE most sought after guys buy needy women on the planet. It has been well proven that women will do ANYTHING if there's enough money involved. When I first heard this I was so offended, and it I just didn't believe it. But no, it's been proven over and over again. So it's just a matter of negotiating what that is. No woman will enter into any kind of a relationship with a man without first considering his financial status. For some it's not that important - the cheap ones don't care. But for most, money talks. If they can hitch their wagon to a producer, so much the better, right?
A good example I like to give are the dating profiles - EVERY profile for EVERY woman says they like to TRAVEL. Well, guess who pays for all that travel luxury? Her? Uh, no. Some guy she has fucked for it.
To a degree I would say that is true. The money aspect aligns up with purpose and ambition from a man's perspective. Women get attracted to men that have those traits and qualities because it shows that is his focus to desire more and always have a goal to be chasing. They are more disciplined and have more standards.
When guys pursue women, they chase them off because they become their focus. Men should look at women as a great addition and commitment to their fulfilling life that wants to be on the journey with them, not make them the focus because that turns them off faster than a fucking light switch.
Experience has taught me that if you have shit going on, your personal friendships and strong family ties to go with your own hobbies, you are squared away no matter your money situation. If women are only attracted to you for money, the ejection seat button is under your thumb to launch them out of your life.
Men who always chase money always have women,
whose chosen career is to chase men who chase money.
Money is but a portable means to 'barter' for PERISHABLE youth, fertility and beauty.---
A diamond is merely a specific 'rock' whose ACTUAL 'worth' is ONLY what we assign to it.
You CAN'T eat it. Were Russia and Amsterdam to flood the market with their hoarded stockpiles, diamond's value would plummet to that of ordinary gravel. The same for gold.
WE ALL exchange effort & ethics of our fleeting lifespans for the EASE & QUALITY of our survival~
I honestly think that attractiveness for anyone is their type. Women like to show off their guys, men do too. When a guy chases money, the difference is he is showing off that money that attracts women. Hence guys that attracted women with debt are getting women. The issue guys have is he wants to provide in certain ways, depends on his priorities. We just don't want a women that bleeds us dry because she got spoiled. When a guy is chasing money he won't have time for her and usually will compensate gifts as forms of affection. As both men and women age their priorities change and realisms set in. Sometimes though men can be stuck in the showing off mode, and women can be stuck in the chase the money that they enjoyed with other guys. Both parties can be delusional.
Online dating apps amplify these delusions, and it is known as catfishing.
Agree somewhat, but disagree.
I know a millionaire who actively tried hooking up with a girl, I already hooked up with for free. He dropped a few hundred on her hoping to get in there.
He does have women in his life here and there, but so do I. Granted I wouldn't say I "chase" women. I'm just out here having a good time. To me chasing girls is doing anything and everything to have sex with them.
Dropping hundreds a month on girls,, just to sleep with them. If a guy is doing that then yea, probably won't have money because he is spending both time and resources on women.
If he spent just his time in women and resources on himself then he can have both without chasing women which is what I prefer.
I live on earth, there is these two kind of men and it is real but the percentage is very low. These two things are possible choices but not the majority, there is men that chase women and they are rich AF, of course there is men whom chase money that have more than one woman, some are smooth talkers but not all of them. So! These two group of men are not a general thing nor the majority.
Men who chase money always have WOMEN WHO CHASE MONEY CHASING THEM! That's the honest truth.
Most women want to know a man can pay his bills and save a few bucks. As long as he's not a lazy slug driving a beater, it's OK.
Women who want Mr. Slick driving a Maserati aren't interested in Mr. Slick. They're interested in what Mr. Slick can do or buy for them. eww.
i read an interesting study a long time ago. they surveyed 1100 postgraduates. 100 of them had a groundbreaking idea and wanted to work hard at making that work. 1000 of them just wanted to become millionaires. 90 of the first group became millionaires. of the latter group only one made it.
money isn't what attracts women. competency does. and competency often predicts income.
I don't agree with this, I have many guys that are really incompetent. Like they are lazy as hell, and get some beautiful women.
It's just game that works, where you look like you got money works.
@Crazybeeguy well maybe beauty is all those women can offer and maybe that's not enough for more higher value men. maybe those women were quite unintelligent, so they arnen't appealing to intelligent and competent men despite their looks. ever thought about it like that?
Yes, these women were quite smart.
I had one that wanted to be a physics professor, what she enjoyed was overwritten by he need to "chase" guys with money. Even though they were broke, one still lived with his "mommy" and used his mom's car. I would have dated them and been a supportive boyfriend, brought the best out of them so they can feel fullfilled. Even though I made friends I helped them get to a better spot in life by changing parts of their mentality. Their potential was there, they just didn't know how to tap it. You should stop looking at women that are pretty as dumb bimbos, maybe you wouldn't be angry.
@Crazybeeguy wait a moment there my friend. i was gonna comment on what you just said but your very last sentence made me stumble.
"You should stop looking at women that are pretty as dumb bimbos, maybe you wouldn't be angry". i have 2 problems with that. 1: what made you think i believe pretty women are generally "dumb bimbos" and what made you think i was somehow angry?
@Crazybeeguy well maybe beauty is all those women can offer and maybe that's not enough for more higher value men. maybe those women were quite unintelligent, so they arnen't appealing to intelligent and competent men despite their looks. ever thought about it like that?
@Crazybeeguy well you need to consider the context of what i said. i said that as a response to you telling me that a "very pretty looking girl" got with a " generally very unappealing guy" so what i tried to do was help you see reasons why a pretty girl might go with a low value man. i didn't at all say that pretty women are generally stupid. so having that missunderstanding out of our way, i can now comment your second to last comment:
"wanting to be a physics professor" doesn't make you a smart person. every stupid little child wants to be a doctor or professor some day. i'm not saying that this person you're talking about is stupid. maybe she is smart. i'm just saying that from what you said, it doesn't "necessarily" follow that she "is" smart.
anyway: i'll be honest dude, please don't feel offended, this is just what i see: i smell a huge entitlement in your expression. as if you want to say that you should have been the subject of her desires and you feel like you've been treated unfairly cause she didn't choose you, so you now start throwing shit at the guy she was going for. and on top of that you kind of reflected your anger on me with your last comment, maybe that was a valid critique of yourself.
look. i don't know who that girl you're talking is and i don't know you or the guy she went for. but the fact is that you didn't offer her what she wanted in a partner. and he obviously offered her waht she wanted in a partner. so for you it is very easy to draw all sorts of conclusions from that and tell me that i'm wrong in what i said... cause i don't know shit about those people, so i can't even make a case. maybe we should not start to look at anecdotal evidence and particular special cases, if we wanna look at the bigger picture. cause you'll always find anecdotal evidence that will contradict every bigger picture.
@Crazybeeguy a reason "high" value people (assuming the girl you were talking to is high value) are going for low value partners is: they have very low self-esteem or are depressed. so there's a lot of problems and variables that go into a persons choice of partner. you're playing god here trying to dictate what her choices should have been (which is you)... to me, that doesn't seem like a thing that a "high value man" would do...
Oh great, 90% of guys on GAG think they can't get laid unless their rich or that every girls a gold digger. You've just caused mass depression and them all to give up trying.
What's wrong if girl choose money & financial situation over love?
Men who chase money have gold diggers and co dependent women. Men without money chase women to feel better about their lack of productivity in the world. It's a way to fill the void which leads to more insecurity because now they have a girl they can't care for, or a woman they want to put beneath them and force her to suffer with him.
That's a yes and no to both. There are bums who happened to get a few women pregnant. I know a couple of six figure guys who are in great shape but have big trouble talking to women
We are talking generally speaking... that is all anecdotal.
flashing money is only gonna attract gold diggers , not decent women
Exactly. I don't know why this is so hard for so many people to see.
There is not any correlation between money and women. There really isn't. Unless you're talking about BUYING a woman's "affection".
There are rich guys who are as unlucky in love as anyone else. In fact, they have the additional "does she only like me for my money" factor which most guys don't have to even worry about.
Also, I'm not a dude who chases women... but... I would think that men who chase women surely must have some money. It would be hard to "chase women" if you're broke.
@SteveSmith1985 The question doesn't question what kind of woman.
Reality is, a man with money will have a line of women's waiting to be "the one". A broken man is a last option for many women's who haven't someone "better".
Notice that I never mention what type of woman, but still what I mention has been going on for centuries. Biology? More likely.
@DiegoO ok. How many hot 25 yr old women are dating 65 yr old men on the street? You never see this type of shit.
I do know of a 75 yr old rich man who decided to remarry a 55 yr old woman before he died. But the 55 yr old woman didn’t want to be with him at all. She just wanted to inherit all his money 5 years later
Do you really want to be with someone who is just married to you because they don’t want to work a job?
And no, most women do not marry for money. We all know it’s a very unfulfilling marriage.
And these types of marriages where money and sex is exchanged usually are not happy and typically do not last. One of the either parties tend to end up cheating on each other
I can guarantee you that most women would marry a broke man who can make them laugh/ give them the best time of their life over some boring rich dude who she doesn’t love
Women become more financially stable throughout life too, just like men.
I don’t know why men just keep overblowing the money part
@DiegoO women marrying men for money has been going on throughout history BECAUSE WOMEN DID NOT HAVE CAREERS BACK THEN. WOMEN WERE HOUSWIVES AND RELIED ON MEN FOR INCOME. THEY HAD NO EDUCATION OR EARNING POTENTIAL. SO OF COURSE THEY HAD TO LOOK FOR A RICH MAN
NOWADAYS WOMEN CAN. MAKE MONEY JUST LIKE MEN CAN.
@DiegoO you saying that it’s biological for women to want rich men is similar to saying that it’s biological for men to only want to marry hot women.
So you’re basically saying that any man would trade their plain looking wives for a hot woman?
If a man had to decide on whether he should save his wife from drowning or a supermodel, are you saying he’d rather save the supermodel?
Most people marry for love , not looks or money.
I know several men in their 40s who chase money without hide nor hair in the female department. A workaholic with a shitty personality, overweight and with a face only a mother could love will have very little success with ladies unless he is making Fuck you money. But as I stated I know several guys who are married to their work, bring in a lot of money but have shitty personalities, no looks and who are chronically single.
False. Money is a plus but there are plenty of guys who have money who don’t get women, and plenty of guys without money who do.
If you have an unfuckable personality money won’t make much of a difference, at best you’ll attract girls who’ll pretend to like you so you’ll spend on them.
The most important thing for a guy to know is how to talk to women and be interesting.
My son has a lot of money for his age. He likes computer games, D&D and hanging out with his online friends including in person. But women don’t gravitate to that lifestyle so no women. He is loaded but they would also not likely guess.
Men that chase women want women and all that comes with them; men that chase money don’t prioritize women. Women that are with men that chase women should expect him to want a family and long relationship; women that are with men that chase money are really just extremely expensive prostitutes.
It's a great question. But it's for me to answer. When it says "chase money" does that mean like greedy or obsessed? Cuz I have a full time job and a small business. I like both of these and the work/life balance is perfect. But I wouldn't say that I chase money. Can you please explain a little more?
It's too simple a question for a simple true or false answer. Sure a goal oriented person could be the more generally attractive of the two, but a lot of this is circumstantial and not all bound to money.
Men who “chase” women get the raw end of the deal 99% of the time. It’s one thing to approach but if you have to “chase” she knows she has you and most women will exploit that.
Not always true. Some career players are rich guys and plenty of guys chase money without ever getting any.
No... I’ve been chased with a guy who made pretty good money and had a decent life anyways.
True! Too many single mothers out there with children to worthless bums.
Being a bad boy with a line of crap seems to attract more women than money!
The richest people in the US can't even keep their wives, and most married people who stayed married are in the poverty bracket.
If you chase women by throwing money around then you'll never have it because you'll just attract the attention of magpies/gold diggers.
Similarly you can chase money but you can still find yourself single for various reasons.
True!. .
Chase money and fame..
Earn respect from society .
Be dominant and girls (not every girl) will beg you to take them to your bedroom.. And pound them...
No it's not like they'll see you chasing money so they go for you. Only when you have the money the consumption masters will come forth 🤑🐸 and will fight over you.
Every guy I’ve seen chase women always end up single with dept😂😂😂
I'd say that's almost true cause its not like women can detect men who have money right away. It's like for her to even realize when a man has money is a whole other barrier in itself. I'd def say this is largely true though.
False because chasing money won't get you a girlfriend, or at the very least, not a good girlfriend, chasing girls won't necessarily do you better though.
You don't specify precisely how much money you have to chase, Cause chasing cash is a fucking lonely pursuit and you typically don't have time for women.
Don't be a step dad. Yep it has gotten that serious.
Definitely women want money. I had a friend who told me this. Her friend go out with a rich guy look like a monster and she feel like guys are handsome when they are rich even though he is not good looking
I just want to see the results. There's probably a little truth to both answers.
My former player friend is single and has lot of debts. From my personal perspective there is some truth in this statement
I see more often men with lots of money who struggle to find a women, and then see lots of men without money having women throwing themselves at him or else he has many women.
Definitely false, as most generalizations are. A lot of men with money chase women. And a lot of men with money don't have women because they are so obsessed with money, and the fear of losing it.
Maybe withe first but definitely the second. Women = moth money =flame.
Would know, I usually just do my own thing and women present themselves from time to time. Why chase what comes to you?
Rich guys want to get cucked and pegged because no amount of money will make you desirable. The women they attract still hate them
Yes I’d agree. We tend to go for guys who have more going for them.
Instead of “money” I’d say “success”
Money is the definition of success. No?
Men who chase girls don't have many options to begin with.
A lot of men with money sacrificed social skills, and are awkward and don’t know how to attract women. Money helps, but it’s not enough...
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Men who have no money never catch women.
Women catch men who have money.
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Yes that is a hundred percent true you will never see a broke be as desperate for money as a broke woman
lol what? The question is asking about guys.
I wouldn’t say I’m rich but I know how to save when I want something, and I think I’m pretty good looking and have a nice personality but I don’t chase girls and very rarely get chased
A guy with a lot of money can get all the women he wants. It's just a fact of life.
How many butt ugly rich guys do you see with a gaggle of hot girls swarming around him?
You don't need to chase women when you have one, so you can chase money
Chase women and you'll never achieve anything. Chase achievement, and you'll always have women.
It's not necessarily about the money
I think that is both true and false. I have friend who is rich and that chump never gets laid.
Never = Often and Money = Success might be more plausible.
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Mostly status and mony seeking ones that's no good for nothing quality wise as a person.
Lol this question doesn’t give you much options and the answer can be yes and no to both options giving depending on the person.
Chase neither and you may actually find substantial happiness
False I don't have a lot of money but I also don't chase it's Just not worth it
No, but it has a catchy ring to it !!
Generally speaking, True
If you chase money, you can always buy/rent pussy.
Trump is a fine example.
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