Can attraction grow if I’m just not into the nice guy I’m dating?

[Anonymous]

I met a guy. He’s cute and we are the same age. He is very nice. He asks me a lot of questions, initiates meetings by himself. Pay when we go somewhere.
But I don’t feel anything toward him. Sometimes he tries to kiss me, but I don’t like it at all. And when he hold my hand, he’s arms always sweating. I thought I will be able to like any guy who treat me right, but I feel more attraction to more masculine tall toxic guys. He is taller than me, but very skinny and looks like teenager, even if we are same age.
Will I like him more in future?

[Anonymous]

I guess it could, but it probably already would have. Unfortunately, we don't get to choose who we fall for or how intense. Ji would know. Why would you date someone who you aren't attracted to or have any sort of connection? It sounds like he does the bare minimum. If you're with him, you might miss better opportunities. Find a guy who views you as his top priority and you are attracted to him.

[slatyb]

If you don't want to kiss him, there's no way this will work for you. That's life. Tell him "I'm sorry, but this isn't going to work. Best wishes."

[NathanDavis]

no... that's not how it works

you can't force things

[Mrtcn01]

no never you like him.. men can like women by time.. but women can not like men by time.. women can decide immediately that they like or not.. so leave him so he won't suffer more--

[ChicoFromThe305]

I'd say just make it clear you don't like him, no need to carry him on

[LC75LC71]

Doubtful. You want the bad boy. You want a project to work on.

[jahaims]

That means you aren't emotionally healthy enough to date.

[Anonymous]

No. Cut him loose. He deserves somebody who will reciprocate his feelings. And then you should look elsewhere.

[Anonymous]

There is no chemistry there, so it will not happen.