Am I wrong for pulling away after finding out she has a boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

She was flirting with me a lot and I flirted back. Then someone told me she had a boyfriend and I checked her social media and seen her cuddled up on this dudes arms. I immediately felt disgusted and lost interest in her. I also am aware of she would emotionally cheat with me she would cheat on me for sure later.

I started being colder I would be friendly but never flirty and pretty much was always busy and didn’t let her touch. Apparently her friend said I made her cry.

[Zionne]

You did the right thing pulling back once you found out she had a boyfriend, that’s a clear boundary issue on her side. But instead of going cold and avoidant, it’s cleaner to just directly set distance and keep things respectful without mixed signals. A dating coach for men would tell you the key here is consistency... don’t flirt with unavailable people in the first place, so you avoid the emotional mess on both sides.

[Anonymous]

Flirty is a loose definition of cheating. Some people are just like that. But if you are uncomfortable then it's fine for you to back off.

[Staximus]

You did the right thing. If she ever asks why your behavior changed, tell her you heard she has a boyfriend. Or just tell her anyways.

[RavVid]

You did exactly right. I doubt she cried for the right reasons.

[RavVid]

Thanks for a mho.

[Twalli]

You're a good person, you turned off flirting when you found out she was dating someone else.

[NMMan]

You maintained a healthy boundary in that situation, and I commend you for it.

[MissSunshine2]

No, you did the right thing.

[Mon1to]

you did the right thing

[In_Trance]

Block that bitch