Why are the most eligible bachelors only found at work?

[Anonymous]

I don't know why but the most attractive guys are usually all at work rather than at the bar or any place else. By this, I mean men who are under 36, tall, professional, intelligent, well educated, in shape are all at work whether its law enforcement, corporate jobs, firefighting, construction. Go to the bar or online dating and most of what I see are short, or disshoveled, old, out of shape dudes. Just seems like its impossible to find someone desirable unless you hit on them at work. why is this? am i the only one who feels this way?

[Anonymous]

Because they’re trying to build their career, their lives, set themselves up for success. Don’t bother them. Funny how women are always telling men not to approach them at the gym, at work, etc, etc. But women will go to Home Depot or Lowe’s or in your case work to bother men. I’d they wanted you they would have scooped you up already. Women who are feminine, who are meant to be wives, mothers, are usually scooped up quick. A lot of men these days are done w going to the bars, they’re done w trying to pick up women. Not worth their time or peace.

[Nikki1989]

LMAO. Troll harder.

[Opinion Owner]

@Nikki1989 put on more makeup, it’s not working.

[Asker]

@opinion owner you seem really sad

[Opinion Owner]

Yes I’m really sad how did you guess lol

[slatyb]

You are looking for love in all the wrong places. Try groups that attract high-value men, like outdoor activity groups: skiing, sailing, canoeing, kayaking, hiking, etc. They will at least be fit.

[CriminallyInsane]

Online dating is *mostly* for people who can't get dates meeting people in person through more conventional methods for various reasons. With some exceptions of course, you're not going to find many of the type you are describing because they found someone with a dating app. That's the purpose of those apps isn't it?

[Tamera952]

Maybe because they are the ones with a job?

[indissoluble]

Professionals spend time working or trying to advance their profession. Educated people spend their time educating themselves. People that are in shape spend their time exercising. Are these things you do at a bar? Is it intelligent to go to a bad and spend 5 times as much on a beer and then be expected to tip on top of that for someone handing you a beer when you clearly have hands can can pick a 12 pack off the shelf at the grocery store on your way home from work? Will you get wealthy by throwing your money away? After you drink how will you get your car home? All of these questions have very obvious answers.

[indissoluble]

*bar

[HighValue]

Plenty of high quality men don't go out often so unless you just happen to work with them out of sheer luck, you will likely never find them. Many men gave up on dating because they are tired of being lied to, used for financial gains, and they find too many low quality women that would only make their lives worse, not better, so they don't even try.

[Nikki1989]

Not at my work, they are not. They are all married.

[Anonymous]

Online dating sucks. But maybe you’re not going to the right bars? I don't know. I’m not single and I’m not quite old enough to get into a bar legally yet.

[Anonymous]

People go out less now. Online dating leads nowhere.

[robocop666]

as I look good maybe I should go to a dating app then