Do I really need to drink alcohol when dating a Western girl?

[majd90000]

Is it necessary to drink when dating a Western girl?

[bobalife]

Absolutely not, it’s your choice, interest, and value that you still need to hold onto when you’re dating anyone. Also, not every “western girl” likes drinking lol. Some loves it esp in 20s for fun and socially. But it’s not everyone’s thing.

[bobalife]

And it’s also important in relationships to respect each others difference in interests.

[majd90000]

Of course I wouldn't compromise my values ​​for anyone, but it's good to hear what you're saying. I thought everyone drank, but some people here have told me that not everyone drinks, and there are girls who don't.

[bobalife]

Yeah, what you want and value matters :)

[majd90000]

Yes, I definitely agree with you. Differences in interests should be respected in a relationship; that's for sure.

[bobalife]

And oh it’s just a social norm, but it does not imply it’s for everyone. Just like it’s a social norm that many does weed here… but I can never do it and I respect everyone else who does though.

[majd90000]

Yes, these are social customs that most people practice, but it's good for me to hear that there are those who don't, but I respect the difference in interests.

[RandomGirl42]

No, that's all the more booze for me! 🤣

[majd90000]

Enjoy it 😂

[AngryCarl3]

No, why would it be necessary? Most girls barely drink alcohol. The classy ones anyway.

[NathanDavis]

nope I don't really drink like that, was never an issue

[majd90000]

Apparently, drinking isn't a problem.

[NathanDavis]

it doesn't have to be a problem, no

[Abbycado]

No, you certainly don’t have to.

[majd90000]

This is reassuring, I think.

[Abbycado]

There are many that don’t drink. There also should be no expectation for a partner to drink if she does.

That’s the wrong type of girl if it is an expectation.

[majd90000]

I was asking out of curiosity, but honestly, that's what I was thinking. I shouldn't be obligated to drink if my partner is drinking. You're absolutely right

[Abbycado]

I would never expect a partner to have a drink if I wanted one. I respect other people’s choices.

[majd90000]

In my opinion, this distinctive quality makes you especially special.

[Abbycado]

Much appreciated. To me, it’s just being human and understanding that we all can’t like the same things.

[majd90000]

Yes, you're right. Actually, I'm speaking from a religious perspective because I'm Muslim and I can't drink. But it's wonderful to have understanding girls like you in this world. I appreciate that.

[Abbycado]

Well, make sure a woman knows your boundaries and stick to them. It’s your right.

Can I ask why you want a western woman if that is not likely your religion or lifestyle?

[majd90000]

Yes, I will definitely make sure of that.

Because I will be moving to Europe and I want my wife to be from there, that's why I'm trying to understand the way Western girls think.

[Abbycado]

Ah, understood. Good luck with your move.

[majd90000]

Thanks good luck to you as well

[Abbycado]

Thanks.

[Anonymous]

Better to avoid women who drink entirely 🤐😭 they'll only disappoint you

[majd90000]

I'll avoid girls who drink, even a little; I think that would be better.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes you could even find a good woman who looks secular yet doesn't drink 👀 they do exist.

[Opinion Owner]

God bless ya man - find a good woman someday soon

[queenofcardio]

A lot of people don't drink

[Godihateyou]

You should never date a western girl. You'd have to be drunk.

[Nikki1989]

No, I know many non-drinkers.

[majd90000]

This is a positive thing for me.

[Tonita026]

Why would you need to?

[majd90000]

Just asking

[Tonita026]

I don’t understand that that’s weird to me that be a no

[majd90000]

I didn't understand, do you mean the person accompanying you should drink, or did I misunderstand?

[Tonita026]

No about drinking

[FunkyMonkee]

I never do!

[Anonymous]

Probably not. I don't drink it.

[majd90000]

This is good

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks

[Zionne]

for sure

[Anonymous]

No. Up to you.

[majd90000]

If I never drink, will anything change?