My ex played tapes of our old arguments at a party—what do I do?

[koolaidman79]

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3 mo

We are in the middle of a contentious divorce. I didn't know he was coming or i wouldn't have came. He said it was an accident but kept playing it on his phone loud over and over.
I wasn't yelling or really daying anything. Its him yelling at me like i am in boot camp. but it killed the fun vibe.

[bowenw]

Going forward, try to find out if he is going to be at any parties/events you attend and avoid them if he is. If he happens to show up to one you are at, leave.

[koolaidman79]

I try to but he seems to always be where i am going its weird

[bowenw]

Does he show up to parties/events afterward you do, as if he is tracking you somehow? If so, he may actually be tracking your phone/car.

[bowenw]

Feel free to DM anytime if you wish.

[DryGermanGuy]

Does your state require two-party consent? If yes, then that's invasion of privacy.

[majd90000]

Ignore him and pay him no attention. Try not to be in the same places as him. Just disappear, disappear, and thank me later
Goodluck

[Abbycado]

Why are you at a party with your ex?

[koolaidman79]

I didn't know he would be there

[Abbycado]

Then leave. You obviously stuck around. This all sounds made up.

[Abbycado]

Jfc, you’re 56, ffs.

@Agape93

[Agape93]

Try this. It's a play from a narcissist. Fucking ignore it and grow up

[jazzy34]

If you haven't already, block him.

[In_Trance]

Don't go to the party

[Zionne]

nothing

[Danny_dan92]

Move on