Men feel they are not allowed to date if they have poor jobs. Would you date a man like this if he looked good?
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3 moI've met a lot of dead beat, loser, leaching, unemployed guys who dated tons of woman because they looked good, were fun to be around and had a certain soft side that brought out the nurturing side in women.
But that only works so long. These guys tend to be utterly self destructive and end up in terrible situations. Either the girl is playing psychology games with him or she's just using him to get over someone who used her or they don't know what they're getting into and the guy cheats which throws him even further into degeneracy. And as I'm getting older I'm also noticing a pattern that these types of dudes tend to hang around worse and worse people as they get older.
And I mean they'll start associating with people who have accusations about young girls or S/A and I never stuck around anyone long enough to hear anything definitive about them after that. But I'm sure it will happen one day when they're feeling sorry for themself.
I know I post a lot of "money doesn't matter" talk and stuff but there's a reason besides materialism women appear to chase that.
Many guys who are unemployed and have no money are usually like that because nobody successful trusts them to do anything.
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2.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. I've seen it happen plenty of times
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3 moNo opportunistic broke guys are not a good choice to date. Dating is first and foremost seeing if you are aligned in different important areas and striking up friendship first. It would be difficult if he was not intentional on getting out there to make better money.
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3 moI would. A lot of women would, especially at my age. But eventually they’re going to want him to stop being broke and be a productive member of society so they can build a life together.
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3 moI would say I'm pretty average. I've been pretty much broke most of my life, and I've had a few partners.
So if they'd date an average guy like me being broke, then they would date a good looking guy for sure. I will say though... there aren't very many of them that would date me.
00 Reply2.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. A 10/10 "good looking" guy? Tons of women would.
A 9.8/10 "good looking guy? A fair number of women would.
A 9.5/10 "good looking" guy? A few women would.
In other words, technically "yes", but to have any kind of decent odds, the guy would have to be really, REALLY good-looking. Which probably includes being tall.
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3 moI make it a point to be broke... I hit the gym though. Gold diggers will ignore me, but horny moist and lusting women can't ignore me.
I'm not really broke... but I pretend to be. No, I'm not buying dinner, a new dress, or anythng else. She buys me stuff. I have like 6 different PS5's now... They just buy them for me and no joke, I probably have waaaaay more money to blow than they do. They're never gonna know that though.
Here is my warning to people that follow my path in life. Tons of taken chicks that have a man at home, that's the bulk of what you're going to get. Once they get the money, they they start looking for you. If you're looking for love, make sure she's not just another cheating chick that misses penis attached to a muscle man that can pick her up with on arm and bang her in the air.
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3 moI wouldn't, sorry. Main reason is because I'd rather date someone within the same financial level as me or higher but not someone who makes less than me and or is not ambitious enough to upgrade in their career. I dated a guy who didn't have a job once and another broke guy and their lack of drive really put me off. If you're trying to date go for someone who's on the same level as you, you can try to go for a woman who makes more than you but keep in mind that it can be risky. Good luck!
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ok so laziness ok/. What about a man disabled due to a head injury and poor living off welfare? not his fault
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3 moI know two guys who are engaged to ladies who are high earners, but yet they both are very low earners. They are both kind of happy-go-lucky kind of guys who just kind of go with the flow of life. Not necessarily real good looking. In both of these cases, I think the ladies like being around a guy who isn't bothered by much because they have high intensity jobs, and to them it might be nice to come home to a goofy carefree guy. Just my take on these two situations.
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3 moAre you saying Date as in having sex? Most people mean that the same. Sure they would. Sex is Sex. But most women would not get seriously involved with a guy like that long term. They might use him like a toy and show him off. Now average or below average women might take him to the alter and think they won the lottery.
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3 moI mean yeah, I see that all the time. A lot of girls just want the D, at least until they're ready to settle down and have kids.
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Nothing's changed over many centuries 🫣
3 moBeing broke isn't permanent. As long as he has a job and isn't a deadbeat leaching off everyone it's fine.
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3 moNo. I am 6'4'', broad and have a strong jawline and I am blonde haired and blue eyes. Yet I am still a virgin and stranded as a incompetent man child, to the point where I'm not even sure why I'm bothering to be alive at this rate.
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Generally, women do not actively seek out racists, as racism is largely seen as a negative character flaw and harmful to relationships, causing stress and broken trust
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@AngryCarl3 Coming from a 60 year old boomer who is part of the reason why modern civilisation is collapsing. Women like to be dominated, they just never told you that
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@Staximus Take our advice and start beating off to Stalin instead? 😂
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u 3 moI had dates and girlfriends... with NO job at all...
00 Reply 305 opinions shared on Dating topic. I've seen it, ugly broke dating, good looking broke dating. Little bit of everything. Will she stay long term if he is planning on staying broke, I'm guessing no.
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Anonymous(30-35)3 moI've known it happen both online and real life memories, real life before my eyes
Same as a guy dating a hot broke woman or hot unemployed woman. 🫣🤭😘00 Reply
3 moI am working but I am poor tho, i barely scrape through, would you date me?
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3 moSure some women will. but don't expect her to be hot or awesome xD
00 Reply 1.6K opinions shared on Dating topic. Sure as long as he is a hard worker or actively seeking employment
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3 moI have seen even average looking broke guys dating.
10 Reply Yes because they can fix poor but not ugly or boring.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)3 moNot many. At least not for very long. I mean she'll f*** him, yeah.😆 But date him long term? No.
00 Reply799 opinions shared on Dating topic. Some do especially if they are not that pretty themselves.
00 ReplyIf we're talking REALLY good looking lol
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3 moLooks can only take you so far.
30 Reply 488 opinions shared on Dating topic. Depends on why the guy is broke...
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Anonymous(36-45)3 moMaybe, but not every woman.
00 Reply798 opinions shared on Dating topic. some does
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3 moI don’t mind it
00 Reply15.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. nope
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