Am I overreacting to how close he is with this younger girl friend?

[Anonymous]

So a guy I am talking to is so nice and he's outgoing seems like a big family guy and he has this friend and she has a younger sister and he was saying how is younger sister loves him and how he looks at her as a sister and he takes her out for ice cream and picks her up from school sometimes.

He sent a Pic of her in the chat and he was like "look at how adorable"


I don't know how to feel it made me feel weird cause I watch a lot of pr3d shows and I don't know maybe I am overreacting? I don't know tho he's Hispanic and seems so nice and a family guy but maybe I am overthinking it?

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2 mo

I don't know why AI made it sound like it was his "girl friend" that disgusting

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Guys are supposed to do stuff like that. When I was a kid it happened all the time. I have friends who have relationships like that with family friends. When I was little my babysitter was this college aged girl who brought her boyfriend and we'd go to the park and stuff.

It's being a healthy young adult. Honestly I think stuff like this should be encouraged the same way people are encouraged to go to college. It's so bad for society that kind of thing is so uncommon now.

And it annoys me how people will think a guy at the age where biologically you're supposed to be a father already can act like this and it's bad but then I hear all these stories about people getting molested by their uncles in these crazy situations that make you go how did that even happen.

I think people are too stupid to know what's concerning or not tbh

[molonski2]

Well , she is a friend who is female hence " girlfriend " , you don't say what age she is , but it sure sounds like he is lusing after her , as they used to say at the footy club " give it 2 more seasons " ..

Yeah , I'd be concerned..

[RavVid]

Well I have had close friendship with a girl much younger and thought of her as a sister.

Never occurred to me to think of her any other way. So I don't see why he can't be the same in attitude

[Iron_Man]

What are you trying to say he likes his sister come on I don’t think a man liked his sister that way

[msc545]

Calm down. Unless there is reason to be concerned that it's valid, I would let it go.

[HairF3tish]

Yeah, that kind of behavior from guys or girls is just retarded

[Anonymous]

he's probably a pervert.

[jahaims]

Sounds like a pedo