Why is it a red flag if a woman rejects a coffee first date?

[Vegasrunner]

[queenofcardio]

I have coffee everyday.

I'd prefer going to the Farmer's Market instead. We can discuss whether mushrooms are technically not a vegetable.. They're actually fungi

[Vegasrunner]

@queenofcardio You never want to take a girl to a farmers market on a first date.

[MzAsh]

Not everyone is into coffee. Most coffee places have food now so they could order that.

[Vegasrunner]

@MzAsh They can order tea if they dont want coffee, but you should never buy a woman food on the first date.

[MzAsh]

Damn, not the muffin being your financial breaking point

[Vegasrunner]

@MzAsh Correct, keep it casual plus if she's ordering a muffin on a date thats a sign she could be a potential fatty.

[MzAsh]

A muffin has now revealed both your financial anxiety and your fear of carbs. Impressive efficiency.

[Vegasrunner]

@MzAsh I certainly have a fear of any woman Im seeing eating carbs, especially on a first date, Im not attracted to fatties. And yes im a big proponent of financial discipline, especially when it comes to someone I dont know. How much money do you typically spend on strangers?

[Anonymous]

Because I thought it was a cute idea ☕☕ 😋 who turns down coffee 👀🫣

[Sunshinelips]

It shouldn’t be. What if she’s not a coffee drinker?

[Vegasrunner]

@Sunshinelips Then she can order Tea.

[Sunshinelips]

Then it’ll be a tea date. Or just call it going for a drink date so options are open. Usually first dates involve a drink anyway or a meal.

[Vegasrunner]

@Sunshinelips TBH if a woman makes it that complicated, Id probably just stand her up, if a girl is really interested it doesn't matter where you go she just wants to be there with you.

[Zionne]

i don't think it is