Dating someone in hospitality management: how do you handle insecurity?

[Anonymous]

Does anyone on here have experience with dating people in hospitality? Specifically in management?

I date a beverage manager at an all inclusive resort. Sometimes of course he gets back late which is understandable. But sometimes I get insecure. Of guests and staff being flirty or something.

Anyone else had these feelings as well? How’d you deal with them?

[Daniel707]

It comes down to trusting someone I know that I can’t stop someone from cheating on me there will always be an opportunity. However, that also doesn’t mean I have to be completely stupid either sometimes there’s a genuine reason to feel insecure if you notice patterns in someone or things someone’s doing.

If someone’s loyal and has integrity they won’t cheat even when the opportunity is presented. Opportunity only exposes someone’s true colors that’s why some professions have a lot more cheating is because there’s more opportunities….. Not all cops or nurses or doctors cheat…. But there’s plenty of opportunities available to cheat.

[bobalife]

I agree with you, I also think it’s good to also reflect why and where it’s coming from..
Can you overcome it? Or is this not really for you?

[Anonymous]

You just have to be able to trust your partner. I was talking to a girl who works in a hospital as an anesthesiogist, so I was concerned about the rumored raunchy culture. Once your relationship grows, hopefully so will the trust.