Long-distance girl flying to see male friend who likes her—should I move on?

[Anonymous]

Hey guys, so there's a girl I'm talking to a girl I'm dating but she's not my girl friend. It's long distance. In June she plans to visit her guy friend in Maryland.

And says she can't visit me until 2027. I don't think I feel too comfortable with this cause she said he likes her, but it's a bit emasculating to be honest.

I feel this is a bit of a deal breaker for me. Should I move on?

Another idea I had was maybe making her choose. Either visit him or me. If she chooses him so be it. I'm kinda done with the situation. But what's your thoughts on this

[HighValue]

Move on and don't ask her to choose. If she respected you and the relationship she wouldn't be going to visit another guy like that in the first place.

Her saying she can't visit you until next year, but she can visit him now just means she is trying to keep you as a backup option incase she can't get/keep the other guy. Don't ever accept that kind of treatment.

[WellBye]

It’s time to say goodbye to her.

[Mike_Hum]

take your L and move on.

[karlaatsd]

Not a good match for you