Long distance friend / crush?

[cattertone]

So I've been talking to this girl for about 4 years. she's from Sweden and I'm from the US. I confessed my feelings for her and she said that she does love me a lot, but only as her best friend.
is there any chance she could still fall in love with me?
also she wants to visit this Autumn.

[fortuna]

Wow this Sounds like my story. He is coming next month and I'm so afraid if he is not the person I think he is. I Like him a lot but I didn't want to tell him about my feelings before I'm sure Who he really is. I hope I'm not being catfished for 3 years. Good LUCK :)

[cattertone]

yeah I have the same fear of being catfished for 4 years, but I have her added on snapchat, Facebook and Instagram.
I hope we both have good luck!

[fortuna]

if not.. we can cry together haha :)

[cattertone]

haha, hopefully that doesn't happen. I only want tears of happiness 😁

[fortuna]

haha True. I'll give you an advice. Just don't scare her away. Try not to talk about your feelings and have a great time together. I'm from Europe and we're planning to take or backpacks and hitch-hike from London to Greece for three months. Oh.. he is from the USA too.

[cattertone]

I've backed off for now, just trying to be her friend until she's ready

[bc1989]

what she's saying is she likes your personality but isn't sexually attracted to you

do you really want to be in a relationship with someone that isn't sexually attracted to you?

[cattertone]

she is sexually attracted to me and she loves my personality, I just think that the thought of long distance relationships scare her a little

[Chica_]

Wellllllllllllll yes u do but you need to really prove urself cuz it's gonna be difficult.

[cattertone]

I feel like she almost gets scared when we start to get close.

[Chica_]

She could've had a bad experience. Look into her eyes with warmth and provide support and prove yourself trustworthy and good enough.

[cattertone]

I've always been there for her. and she trusts me, we tell each other everything haha. just can't look into her eyes, she's a few thousands miles away 😅

[Chica_]

How deep did u fall?

[cattertone]

I fell for her so hard, like skydiving without a parachute

[Chica_]

wow... rock bottom. Well, she'll bring you afloat and if she doesn't... believe it or nit another girl will...

Just have patients...💜

[cattertone]

thanks Chica

[Chica_]

My pleasure... u can pm me for advice... 🌸

[cattertone]

thanks. I just hope I can find somebody

[Chica_]

I do to. Someone with a pure heart like urs deserves someone just like you. 😘😘

[cattertone]

Awh thank you 😊

[ghosttownshutin]

NEVER do long-distance relationships. They almost always fail.

[cattertone]

well I've had more luck with ldr than actual relationships

[ghosttownshutin]

Unless you're living together or seeing each other on a regular (daily, weekly) basis, it probably shouldn't be considered "success." Give OKCupid a try. That's how I met my now wife. :)

[cattertone]

I've tried okcupid, match, eharmony, tinder, pof, every dating site I can find and I never get matched with anyone.

[ghosttownshutin]

Widen your search radius.