Before anyone starts coming at me because i know it may sound really really bad for some people, please let me explain.
I'm not stating my exact age but i am a teenager and my boyfriend is the same and we have been together for 2-3 years. my long distance relationship with my boyfriend has definitely tested me, my patience, understanding and especially my forgiveness. he wasn't the best boyfriend since the very beginning of our relationship. he would joke about fucking women if the world stopped, would disregard my feelings, would start arguements and not want to fix them, would be jealous of my female friends even though we dont do any ''cheating'' actions and so much more. and yes, i stayed with him even though he's made me feel very upset a lot of times because i truly love him, and yes 'til now i do. now he's really changed and has been the greenest flag for me and i am so grateful for him, truly.
now, i need to explain what the title is about. i have a recently new guy friend whos part of my friendgroup in school and in class. i didn't think much of him but he's nice and cool to hangout with. at first i didn't think much about him, but lately I've been noticing that I've been staring at him in class, wanting to talk to him more and etc. i dont like this feeling first of all. i wanna be loyal and stay with my boyfriend but I don't know. my guy friend is nice towards me and doesn't badmouth me (jokingly), he also does gestures towards me that are polite and nice and he jokes around me often and sometimes, i catch him looking at me sometimes in class. overall he's a good guy.
i really dont want to lose my boyfriend since i know he's changed now but even some of my friends are encouraging me to breakup with my boyfriend because of all the pain he's brought to me in the PAST, but i keep telling them that he's actualy changed.
please give me an advice or tips or opinions. anything. please because my friends rents really helping me and i dont know what to do.
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Nevermind that long distance bullshit. How often do you see this "long distance boyfriend" in real life?
We’ve never met actually.. I always ask him when are we gonna meet and all because for me i actually can't because my papers are being processed and as for him, i don't even know. He just says “soon we will”
The reason why i met him though is through a mutual friend in real life
Your boyfriend is not a real boyfriend. You have to actually see him in real life for him to be your boyfriend. He's just some guy you talk to online or on the phone, and from what you said he doesn't even seem like a good guy. Are you going to wait around forever for this fake boyfriend? Tell that fool who you never see he's not your real boyfriend and go hang out with the guy who you actually see in real life.