If you don't make a move can a girl lose interest?

[Anonymous]

[jennifer_bloom]

It depends whether she sees you merely as an opportunity to get married, or whether she is legitimately attracted to you. When I used to work my old job, I could usually wait up to 3-6 months before I wanted to settle the score and go on a date.

[Anonymous]

Only if she's narcissistic. A woman that TRULY wants to know you WILL make it happen. Like the old saying goes, "If she wanted to, she would."

Now, if she's put in effort and you're not responding, understandably there is a point where she'll call it quits. And unfortunately, some women are VERY subtle and think they are being obvious. So you do have to pay attention. But don't beat yourself if she isn't very obvious. That is HER failing, not yours. She has to learn to get better some how.

[Asker]

What about younger girls that are 20 or 21?

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not going to lie to you. Younger women do generally have less confidence (but so do younger men). But a GOOD woman regardless of age knows her worth. Everyone loves a compliment. But a good woman does not subsist off of compliments. A good woman has had her self worth instilled in her. So a good woman looks for a man who'll love, care, and protect her. Not just pump her ego.

NEVER worry about a woman you're trying to get to know's confidence. That is HER issue. Only cocern yourself with being a good man.

[OneViewpoint]

Yes. She'll eventually assume you are not interested. What would you do if you let a girl know you were interested and she ignored all of your efforts?

She could make an advance on her own but female culture teaches most women that is humiliating. She'd rather be alone than make the first move 95% of the time.

[Calyptomaniac]

Yeah, plenty do and some would just get impatient and do it for you (me) if you take too long but lots stick to the old-school gender expectations where it's the guy's "job" to make the first move, so beware of that possibility...

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Depends on how strong her interest in you is?

• If it's a slight interest, if she socializes normally, I assume she is going to consider other options.
• If it's a strong interest, I assume she will make a move, or have you make a move.

[NathanDavis]

just ask yourself...

for how long would you look at a statue... before you just move on?

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

[NathanDavis]

https://youtu.be/GxbDuyJ4o6s?t=8

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I love it so much when pride makes us (trying to) performe indifference 😂

[Twodogs0525]

Of course. A great girl was crazy about a good friend of mine for over a year! He seemed to be scared to be in a relationship, then, when she started dating someone, suddenly he was really interested.

[Nikki1989]

Obviously. Only an idiot who thinks his shit doesn't stink would consider otherwise. Life is too short for time-wasters.

[Nikki1989]

And ignore the anon women-haters on here. They are not helping you whatsoever.

[MrChinaski]

Flirting is amazing fun when it's building and incredibly boring when it plateaus. At some point, you need to find your gonads and ask her out.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

In life if you never try you will never know & in life if you snooze you lose.

[exitseven]

yes, I was really shy around girls and looking back i missed a lot of opportunities because I was afraid to make a move.

[AngryCarl3]

Eventually, yes. She'll figure you're just not into her, and she'll meet someone who is.

[queenofcardio]

She can yeah