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Why does dating always go wrong for me despite multiple chances?

Woman A: Were on and off for two years and she wanted me to commit to her. When I finally asked her to be my girlfriend, she was no longer interested. She said I was rude to her friends and belittled her job as a nanny.

Woman B: Saw her casually for almost three years. We acted like a couple—traveled together, went to concerts and weddings, met each other’s family and friends. But I never wanted to commit/define the relationship and wanted to see other women.

Woman C: Only lasted a month. While still involved with Woman B, I started seeing Woman C. She told me upfront she wanted to date me, but I didn’t want a relationship with her. When she asked what we were doing, I told her she was just a “fuck buddy” and explained that I only take women I want to date out on actual outings.

She asked why I didn’t want to date her, and I gave her feedback and encouraged her to date other men. After reading it, she ended things and didn’t want to remain friends.

I still wanted to remain friends and get to know her. I called her multiple times and we eventually had an 8-hour phone conversation where she agreed to continue being in contact. For the next two weeks, we stayed friends while still sleeping together, but then she suddenly ghosted and blocked me.

Six months later, I saw her at a mutual friend’s place and confronted her about blocking me. She was frustrated and basically told me that I was already involved with someone else (Woman B) and that I should focus on that.

She ended up posting about me on “Are We Dating the Same Guy? In response, I had my cousin post a message in an AWDTSG group threatening Woman C with legal action if she kept posting about me and accusing her of being on my property.

Eventually, Woman B decided to move on after three years and ended things.

Why is dating so hard? The women I’m attracted to either a) are too young, b) not interested in me, or c) they have children (I don’t want to date women with kids) I can never find anyone right for me.
Why does dating always go wrong for me despite multiple chances?
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