Which guy has it worst?

[Anonymous]

Guy 1: Got engaged to a girl then she got cold feet and left him. Wedding was booked. She then got married like a year later to a new guy.

Guy 2: 4 month relationship to a 10/10 girl as so beautiful and from same culture. Girl left him, before they broke up they made love and it was so bad. Didn’t even get to do it properly.

Guy 3: Never had a girlfriend and 27.

Guy 1

Guy 2

Guy 3

None of these things are that bad

[MissSunshine2]

I’d go with Guy 3, since you’re asking. If people stay virgins for so long and are open about it, people start to wonder why. But I do know a lot of people who kept their inexperience a secret, except from their closest friends. Then they later lost their virginity quietly. Some in their late twenties, some in their early thirties.

If you’re guy 3 in this scenario, I’d do what I did, get some therapy with a psychologist and take social skills training courses. Research anything you don’t understand and ask questions of people with better social skills than yours. I’ve got Asperger’s Syndrome, so my social skills started off pretty bad. I worked on it and most people seem to really take to me now in person. Autistic or non autistic.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Number 1 sounds painful and like it would hurt deeply.

Number 2 and is a "so what" scenario. You had bad sex. So what? You move on and experience great sex with someone else. Also, stop with this rating system. It makes someone feel like cattle or something being graded on their meat.

Number 3 is another "so what" scenario. Im not going to feel sympathy for the person but there is also nothing wrong with it. As Nikki said, that guy has potential.

[BadApple69]

The old saying: it is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved before.

[OneViewpoint]

It's all pretty "normal". But none of these guys are doing it right.

[Nikki1989]

Guy 3 still has potential. The other two sound clueless.