Which guy has it worst?

[Anonymous]

Guy 1: Got engaged to a girl then she got cold feet and left him. Wedding was booked. She then got married like a year later to a new guy.

Guy 2: 4 month relationship to a 10/10 girl as so beautiful and from same culture. Girl left him, before they broke up they made love and it was so bad. Didn’t even get to do it properly.

Guy 3: Never had a girlfriend and 27.

Guy 1

Guy 2

Guy 3

None of these things are that bad

[MissSunshine2]

I’d go with Guy 3, since you’re asking. If people stay virgins for so long and are open about it, people start to wonder why. But I do know a lot of people who kept their inexperience a secret, except from their closest friends. Then they later lost their virginity quietly. Some in their late twenties, some in their early thirties.

If you’re guy 3 in this scenario, I’d do what I did, get some therapy with a psychologist and take social skills training courses. Research anything you don’t understand and ask questions of people with better social skills than yours. I’ve got Asperger’s Syndrome, so my social skills started off pretty bad. I worked on it and most people seem to really take to me now in person. Autistic or non autistic.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Number 1 sounds painful and like it would hurt deeply.

Number 2 and is a "so what" scenario. You had bad sex. So what? You move on and experience great sex with someone else. Also, stop with this rating system. It makes someone feel like cattle or something being graded on their meat.

Number 3 is another "so what" scenario. Im not going to feel sympathy for the person but there is also nothing wrong with it. As Nikki said, that guy has potential.

[Anonymous]

Probably guy 1. But really they're all winners is my book. Because guy1. was left before he married. So he didged that bullet. And some other schmo married it. Guy 2. the woman being a 10 is irrelevant. And Guy 3., while it sucks that he's always been single, the bright side is none of these harpies have ever gotten their hooks into him and broke him or his heart.

[Purpleronnie]

Determining the “worst” for me is need to know more about “choice” for guy 3 and specifics of the other 2 as how things happen is important as to what guy really has it worst


From the information given I’d have to say I abstain. There is not enough information to say they have it bad all all. Both seemed to have dodged a bullet in my opinion

[Finchie40]

I’d say Guy 1 for sure , he clearly gave his heart to her and asked her to be his wife , and then she eventually changes her mind and spreads her legs to another guy the. Marries him instead

[BadApple69]

The old saying: it is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved before.

[OneViewpoint]

It's all pretty "normal". But none of these guys are doing it right.

[Nikki1989]

Guy 3 still has potential. The other two sound clueless.

[Anonymous]

This is me
Never had a relationship, no love, nothing in life.
Just me

[Jammannn]

Being 27 does puts you around the bottom 1% of men. Which would mean lacking social skills/0 physical appeal. I'd focus on talking to women/hit the gym. Nothing will ever come to you if it hasn't by now. Women don't understand that world; you shouldn't ever explain this to them if you're interested in pursuing them either; their world is so full of options its hard to envision a world without them, so they default to red flag.