Who has it worse?

[Twalli]

A couple of friends were both upset because they were single. One was a 33 year old guy. The other was a 39 year old girl. The guy has never had a girlfriend or a relationship. The girl had multiple relationships, but no kids and they hadn't worked out. In my opinion the guy had it worse. The girl had experienced love, or at least physical attention from guys, the guy had never from girls. Do you think the guy had it worse?

[DizzyDesii]

I’ll never understand how a person has never had a boyfriend/girlfriend. If they’re just too dang picky then that makes sense. If they never leave the house then that makes sense. But anything outside of that seems like a red flag and i’d assume theyre either unattractive or its something mentally wrong with them. So i can't say the guy had it worse because he prob put himself in that predicament. The girl didn't have it worse but the guy also didn't

[Twalli]

He's autistic. Granted high functioning, but add the difficulty of talling to a girl you like with the difficulty of socializing overall. It's not easy.

[natured]

The guy never got hurt though... the girls must have been hurt many times since her relationships didn't work...
Don't put these things ona scale, it's unfair, because it's obvious that YOU AS A MAN will make another MAN WIN... lol

[Twalli]

No, I as a person who was like him until I turned 27, know how it feels.

[Birdlegs]

The guy is probably lonely asf tho I’d reckon that being lonely is a worse fate always thinking nobody likes or wants you

[Twalli]

@Birdlegs That is why I find the issue worse with the guy.

[Flower7]

The guy has it better because he never experienced any break-ups or the pain that accompanies them.

[Twalli]

On the flip side he feels like nobody outside his family loves him. In other words those who love him are biologically programmed to do so.

[Hiitsme23]

Being used as a woman doesn't feel great.

[Twalli]

I don't actually know if she's had sex. I guess she has, but I don't know.

[IHateBeingaMan]

no question about it, the guy

[moviedude714]

Probably the guy