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Both are sad cases but who do you think has it worse?
- A man that's single and can't ever get a girlfriend, no girl at all?
- A woman that can't attract marriage-minded men, stays as just a girlfriend?
Objectively, the first one: A man that's single and can't ever get a girlfriend at all.
A woman who can't attract marriage-minded men; is just being picky and entitled. There's PLENTY of reasons why men shouldn't get married nowadays; Johnny Depp and Kanye West being two 2022 examples why. She can still love a man without "locking him down" and being guaranteed to take half his sh*t when the inevitable divorce happens.
There's not even any such thing as a woman who can't get a man; women are just insanely picky and entitled nowadays; with most of them feeling entitled to 9s and 10s (aka Hypergamy), when they're 4s, 5s, and 6s who offer NOTHING to a man's life other than POSSIBLY a remedy for loneliness, if that. I don't feel sorry for any woman claiming to be "single and lonely" all because she's rejecting men under six feet tall or less than an 8 in looks as "creeps and incels who just want sex" (lies). I have no f*cks to give to entitled arrogant women like this.
As others said, age does play a part in it as well, but even women in their 30s (hitting "the wall" and post-wall) still have FAR more dating options than men in their 30s, whose options have slightly improved. Men going from zero women a month interested in them in their 20s, to one or two 30+ year old women interested in them a month in their 30s, is still NOTHING compared to women in their 20s having a hundred+ men interested in them a week, versus women in their 30s having ten men interested in them in a week. Sure, the old woman loses 90% of her men chasing her, but still has five times more options than the old man whose options barely double, if that.
In other words; women are always far more desired than men, regardless of age or looks. So no, I don't feel sorry for a single one of them and women do NOT have it hard in the dating world! Most are just entitled and full of themselves.
I'm single, don't even want to be near women at all unless they're immigrants... and I think I have it good tbh. I have no STD's, no court cases, haven't been to prison, no child support, I don't have to worry about what I've worked for being stolen from me, I won't get attacked physically for not rolling over on demand, don't have to worry about cheating or social media garbage, and don't give a shit what they want, say or think!😃I know a LOT of guys though... who are worried daily about several of these. I fail to see how they have it better after hearing them.😎Western women are only for pimps and fuckboys now anyway. So... let em have em. I'm out.😌
Women because women are least likely to ask a man out or else she’d be seen as desperate. Harder for women to be players due to pregnancy and being slutshamed.
If you can get a man to sleep with you you can get one to put a ring on your finger lmao. Ring is just jewelry
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I gotta say women have a harder time.
The amount of preparation I've seen my female friends do before going on a date, making sure the guy is legit, sending a pic and details of the guy to friends to safety. It is scary for them.
There are some very dangerous men out there.
There are dangerous women too but it is undeniable that we see male perpetrators more often.
When the worst case scenario for a women at a date is getting killed, it's pretty easy to understand why they have it harder.
This is a function of age:
At your age range (18-24) definitely the man.
But as each person gets older, the situation of the aging woman becomes clearly sadder. The younger woman at least still has time, and the younger man can mature and improve his position in life as he gets older.
I think it's all a matter of perspective.
First off a lot of those women that can't find a man to marry them, search for these men like they're looking for a black cat in a dark room that isn't there. Most of these women are not marriage material to begin with and that chases all the good men away but the other half wouldn't know what a good man looked like even if he was standing right in front of her.
Now the guys who can't get a girlfriend, yeah you could say they have it worse. But do they? Most of these guys that get repeatedly by these women don't even get what a blessing it is. Most of these are very low quality women to begin with.
So I'd call it a draw really. Most guys don't get much say in the dating options. But they avoid most of the landmines by shear rejection that woman step on repeatedly.😆
What's wrong is their mindset.
Do we find love on basis like marriage?
Do we think we are ugly because we need to work on ourselves?
We are who we are, one cannot change that. Can only change our life, ethics, view of things, body, mind, spirit, learn, fail, fall, rise and evolve.
In general Men have it worse from ages 18-24. Then things improve from 30 upwards.
In general Women have it better from ages 18-24. Then things get worse from 30 upwards.
But collectively given the decline of society overall, the ego driven collective, promiscuity, lies, disloyalty, sexual immorality, VAIDS, STD's and lack of discernment. All genders have it worse from all ages... period (unless they seek God).
Honestly and objectively speaking? Men.
Because naturally men approach and begin any interaction.
It’s cause of this women don’t really have to try at first. They see all their “options” right off the bat and from there can pick and choose.
And it happens often where a man could be talking to a girl that they both like each other, until another man messages her that she likes more and bam. She’s gone
Humans ultimately need to mate. Its part of our genetics. Now of vourse there are some folks who considers themselves asexual. In any case, a normal man who hasn't had the chance to get laid will have a very damage emotion and psyche. This is why I'm all for legalizing Brothels. Sex is part of being alive and there are men and women who can't get those at all
I would say the guy since he´s alone and doesn´t seem to find a partner at all since it gets harder the older he gets and the more rejections he receives.
The man, obviously. The woman just made bad dating choices. She can probably attract marriage-minded men, but she doesn't choose them for whatever reason. The guy can't attract anyone.
We live in an insane world where the sexual marketplace is rigged in women favour and this is still a question.
I always get rejected and ghosted from women because I don't drive.
Women because their biological time clock hits the wall about 10 years before men
They both have a choice. The man is on his own though so that's worse.
A man that's perpetually single and doesn't want to be. The woman you described is all most straight women at some point lol
We’re you the one who asked about a female incel? Are you one of them or something haha
Women because everything comes into play.
Women
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