How can you tell if a man is truly serious about you in a relationship?

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envyentertainment · Accepted Answer

A man who is truly serious about you shows it through consistent actions, not just words. He makes time for you, follows through on what he says, includes you in his future plans, communicates openly, and respects your boundaries. Most importantly, he stays consistent over time, even when things aren’t perfect or easy.

_Jenny_ · Accepted Answer

@misssunshine2 when he keeps calling you!

usernameobvious · Accepted Answer

Surely he's monogamous or has a ring 💍

ohsheeT · Answer

When he communicates with you you will always be looking deep into your eyes
the way he talks to you the tone of his voice

The way he just barely touches you or holds your hand whether it's just one finger with his finger in your finger or whether it's your whole hand

The way he kisses you on the back of your neck

The things that he does for you he will always be doing little things for you at all times just help you through the day no matter what it is

The way he kisses your lips your neck

You will feel his energy present no matter what you're doing

HawkPerception · Answer

Simply put... he gives you his time and is genuinely attentive. He wants to get to know you and puts effort into doing just that. He actually wants to see you and be in your space, and believe it or not... guys who "take things too fast" are generally the ones that are the most serious about you. And I don't mean sex. I mean trying to push for it to be an official relationship or marriage. Trying to see you often, etc.

MrOracle · Answer

1. You vet him, at the very beginning, based on his morals, values, and life goals. Obviously all those things need to be compatible with yours ALREADY - you CANNOT change these things about him.

2. Look at his actions over time. Do they match up with what he said?

That's really it. It's not complicated, but it takes time and effort.

Oh, and expect him to do the same thing with you.

AviatorTom · Answer

Look at his eyes when he says something nice to you.

Staglioni · Answer

The ring of brightly coloured plumage about his neck will "frill out", as it is commonly known, quite a brilliant display actually. Nothing is required or expected of you, it is a common misconception that you must initiate the next stage of the dance, not so, that is also his role. Allow yourself to be swept away by his rolling and twirling, feathers a-fluttering, and if you both feel that you are the ones for each other than you will know it by his song, and the harmonies will come so naturally to you both that it will be as if rehearsed for years, not at all spur of the moment as is really the case. And if not, then immediately following the dance, you may choose to eat him.

RedAlertAdvisor · Answer

The biggest sign is consistency.

Most people focus on chemistry, attraction, or what someone says. But serious people show it through consistent actions over time.

If a man is truly serious, you won't spend months wondering where you stand. He will make time for you, follow through on his promises, include you in his future plans, and make an effort to keep moving the relationship forward.

Words matter, but patterns matter more.

When someone's actions consistently match their words, that's usually a very good sign.

Angelo75 · Answer

He will introduce you to his parents and close friends.
He'll tend to defend you in front of his friends and family.
He will do an effort to meet the ones that are important to you like your family and closest friends.

And ofcourse he'll not be putting off the step of going further than just relationship.

InknKink · Answer

Advancing the relationship forward, meeting his friends/family, talking about the future, planning vacations weeks or months in advance.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Time will tell. Genuine security, ease, and feeling genuinely appreciated are difficult to fake over time.

Anonymous · Answer

If he changes his eating, sleeping.
Takes more responsibilities then before and avoid enjoyment.
Makes more active effort for future then enjoying time with you.
(It's because he wants to make you happy in future but he is stressing how will he do that and gets aggressive when you say you don't put enough effort)

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Simple: you can't. (and vice versa) It's a question of 'stamina' that needs to be renewed each single day.

Anonymous · Answer

If he stuck a tongue up your ass for his own pleasure he’s yours forever

molonski2 · Answer

Words are cheap , actions speak , words don't  " At the end of the day many things will be spoken of , few will be actioned " ..

beenherebefore · Answer

When he's consistent and his words match his actions.

dragoblack · Answer

He invests his time & attention to get to know you on more than a surface level, ontop of the romance

RavVid · Answer

It shouldn't hard to tell he wants to maximize his time with you.

WhitneySnow · Answer

Only time will tell. Be patient and don’t get too sexual too soon.

brezzybaby · Answer

He WILL TELL YOU , POST YOU, TELL HIS FAMILIA /FRIENDS ABOUT YOU... BELIEVE ME IF HE WANTS U U WILL FIGURR IT OUT

RichardCranium6201 · Answer

Oh believe me, you'll know. As white is to black or vise versa.

MrChinaski · Answer

A guy is serious if he consistently attends to you and nurtures you over a period of time.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Tell him that you cannot have sex for two months by doctor's orders. If he takes off, he cared about sex not you.

Iron_Man · Answer

if you’re not having sex and he keeps hanging around and he’s showing a lot of enthusiasm

NathanDavis · Answer

after 40 years... is pretty much a safe bet

MasterKS · Answer

Its tough because relationship lands into free sex at the end.

Anonymous · Answer

Please don’t tell me you’re 37.

sage2021 · Answer

When he keeps coming back.

smashleyy · Answer

Doesn’t leave you in confusion

lilBigPotato · Answer

You can't until you're a few months in.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

You'll know by how they treat you

Mathiew · Answer

Good clothing, clean and have money.

Anonymous · Answer

If he still there after you have sex

AKAAH_7854 · Answer

Hiii

Smileygirl2000 · Answer

His actions..

In_Trance · Answer

Ask him

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