Do I need a fit partner if my lifestyle is all about fitness?

[Cluelessguy95]

It's been almost 2 years since I started to have healthier habits.
I've never been fat but recently I've had this doubt about what kind of women should I date.

Since I have this routine were I work go to the gym take care of my diet and go to sleep early. I have little to no free on weekdays. Only a little bit on the weekends.

This had me thinking about how would I integrate a partner into my life and even worst if she doesn't have the same habits.

I don't judge nor I dislike people who physically aren't fit but the lifestyle makes me think im doomed to only date people who have fit/sporty lifestyle because of the posible argument that might happen due to the difference in lifestyles

[Calyptomaniac]

If you are as inflexible with your routine as you make yourself sound, then I'm not sure why you'd bother dating anyone. If you don't have time or won't make time, it probably would never be serious, even with people who are similar to you. I go to bed earlier than anyone and get up at 2AM to go for a run before I get to work at 3 and obviously that wouldn't work with anyone if I wasn't flexible with things. Unless you think you're going to stumble into someone on your literal exact schedule, then you shouldn't bother dating anyone who always come in second to your routine.

[RavVid]

Good that you are thinking of this. I think you should consider if your own mastery of your life is what will bring most contentment you. There is almost an assumption that you cannot be happy without a woman in your life.

But often far from being your peace often they turn out to be your aggravation, expecting and demanding a lot without providing anything in return.

I wouldn't say you are doomed to date sporty girls. You could just see if someone comes along who is suitable. 70-80% of women initiate divorce after 8 years so it has become silly to base your life around a wife.

[Nikki1989]

No. You shouldn't be so one-dimensional.

[Cluelessguy95]

I'm not. That's why I said it's not about the body it's about the habits. Waking up early to go to the gym, take care of your food not eating junk food, sleeping early to get proper rest that translate to no club/bar/night activities.

[Alex-Snow]

It might help a potential relationship.