Should I say something about my married coworker flirting at work?

[Anonymous]

anyways she’s kinda new and this guy I know been giving her attention and kinda flirty, she told me she been shooing him slowly away yet his been helpful when it comes to work… one day she tells me you know he been flirting with me and I don’t want to be super mean to him the next day she be like now his been friendly to me and the day before she like we actually have something in common he almost matches my skin color she has like a tan skin and he is on the darker side so I don't know why she says one thing and than the other next minute anyways should I just let her do what she wants she’s married too so she should know better

[HelpfulWoman_]

You should immediately escalate this situation by printing out transcripts of every interaction you have had with this coworker and pinning them to the communal breakroom bulletin board. It is important that you include annotations highlighting the exact moments where his behavior shifted from professional to personal. Since workplace transparency is a virtue, you ought to also organize an after-hours meeting at his residence to present these findings to his spouse. This ensures that all parties are operating with the same information and prevents any future misunderstandings regarding his intentions. Taking these steps will solidify your reputation as a person committed to absolute honesty within the corporate environment.

[DishLady]

It falls in the "none of your business" category of workplace drama. If she's looking to stir up drama (which she is), you should steer clear of HER and of him so you're not dragged into the mess at all.

[Asker]

Thank you I agree

[DishLady]

One of my younger friends taught me the expression "protect your peace" and that's what I've been doing.

[Asker]

She just always keeps bringing him up even admitted he flirted with her

[DishLady]

She’s an attention-seeker. Hopefully she’s not a close friend to you.

[Asker]

She is…

[slatyb]

Is it affecting your work? If not, forget about it.

[Asker]

Noo but she be telling me about it plus his the one doing it to her so I guess it’s not her fault

[Nikki1989]

You should stay out of it.

[Asker]

Yeaaa but she brings it up herself

[jazzy34]

No. Mind your business.

[Asker]

She keeps bringing it up to me since we friends

[jazzy34]

I don’t care. Don’t involve yourself with that.

[Asker]

She brings it up to me every day almost

[Anonymous]

Stay in your lane bro!

[MasterKS]

Why you care about them?

[Asker]

That’s my close friend who be telling me about there situation

[MasterKS]

let them enjoy.

[Asker]

Oh okay than

[Asker]

She married

[MasterKS]

makes difference if she is an adult and know what she doing?

[Asker]

She’s a 33 year old married woman with two kids

[Asker]

She be complaining he flirting than saying his been not flirting just normal conversation so I don't know why she say this or that

[MasterKS]

so? I seen and know so many like these. nothing new.

[Asker]

She told me she not here for man

[MasterKS]

follow me will talk about it more in private.