Going out with a date?

[InStrictConfidence]

How do you handle bills? When you go out on weekends to museum or dinner or food shopping?

In 1. If you are getting to know and not a couple.

2. If you are a couple, not living together?

Do you talk before who pays the bill? Share 50:50?

Does a woman has to ask if she should pay before you enter the restaurant?

How do you do it?

Updates

6 h

Is it different with 20 - 30 - 40 - 50 or where you grow up and live?

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Case 1. Early stage

I assumed each of us pays our part for as long as I remember. No girl ever challenged this assumption so far, since 30 years.

Case 2. Couple

Our finances are then somewhat blended together, so sometimes I pay for both, sometimes she does, if the price tag rises we probably split instinctively. Again, this has never been discussed or challenged, decisions go autopilot mode seamlessly. And again, it's always been like that, from teen years to now.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

In fact I discovered that this topic was something debated, regularly, when I landed on g@g, 2 years ago. So I strongly assume there's something cultural or the people of g@g don't represent the general population lol

[bowenw]

Whoever did the inviting should pay, but after getting to know each other don't hesitate to discuss finances and split bills or take turns.

[Pterodon]

Be prepared to pay for yourself including a ride home. Always have a way out

[Paige2006]

He pays

[eagle1951]

the guy pays