What does it take, for you to go out on a date?

[Chikky]

[DaveJord]

I don't know any more!!! Like Seriously @Chikky I am 46 years old, and I have not been on date in 5 months, and I am like not even interested anymore. Like I have never gone that long in my adult dating life... like I see woman that I would talked to easily just a few years ago, and not I am not even interested in putting out the effort to say hi.

Like I am becoming one those types and it kind of pisses me off.

[Chikky]

It happens to everyone

[nastyb]

Jaded bitter angry and hopeless. Thats what you are

[DaveJord]

@nastyb You're probably right.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I don't go on "dates".

I'd rather date a best friend than a stranger, and I don't see dating as a way to get to know someone (but rather to me dating is the state of already being a commited couple who's not enganged or married yet)

[jennifer_bloom]

They have to have a refreshing personality and be happy to see me. Will not socialize with somebody who does not appreciate me. They also have to be easy going and gracious.

[Pinay_ako]

I have to be at least into you or interested to go out… or it’s a no.

[mandyfire98]

Attraction to the other person. A connection of some sort between us. Interest in pursuing that person.

[Billlewis]

I enjoy paying for a beautiful woman's dates with her boyfriends and male lovers, and if she lets me listen to her having sex with him, that's my absolute favorite way to spend an evening.

[thatshydork]

I have to be able to feel like I can trust this person and that I know them well enough to trust them and feel an attraction to them.

[asphaltrhymes]

Trust as in to not cheat, to have a clean record and clean health also, and to be comfortable with in bed also? The all whole ticking all boxes? 😬😋

[LovingJo]

Someone to prove that they're genuinely interested in getting to know me, as a person. And that we have common interests and goals.

[ChisRockss]

It takes a lot chemistry, liking towards the person and knowing we have a good connection. Won’t just ask out anyone only if I’ll know that something can develop with the person.

[Reorx]

She has to be modest. Quality of motherhood is more valuable to me than looks. I'm not the player type, I have one in mind I'll be asking in a week:)

[coachTanthony]

A big booty maybe? lol

[asphaltrhymes]

Or big titties? 😋🥛🥛

[Unit1]

A willing girl. i'm not asking for too much.

[heavymetalbrotha]

Eh by the time I take them out it's a sure thing not trying to waste a ton of time of money on maybe

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Have to like her a lot. I'm very lazy when it comes to dates.

[TheAfrikan]

Guts since am that guy who does not go for dates

[Boomchakalaca]

I just gotta know if the guy is a goofy goober first.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

All she has to say is do you want to go out for pizza & ice cream & I’m sold.

[TallAnon]

It needs to look fun to meet her, comfy vibes, not too restrictive or complicated; Just, let's go and spend some time together and hopefully we vibe

[Unknown29]

My first date with my wife was like a given. Everyone knew it was just a matter of time.

[mommymommymommy]

Isn't it to want to be seen in public with that person?

[4ngelic]

having feelings for the dude

[Ms_Facesitter]

Interest in the guy, that's all. And time :)

[Anonymous]

I'm not a slut sadly.

[pass_the_celery98]

going out on a date doesn't mean being a slut. In today's culture of sex driven music and sexualization on social media maybe. But if I go out on a date with a girl, it's just to eat some dinner and get to know her. Not plow her in the bedroom and rip off her clothes.

[Opinion Owner]

@pass_the_celery98 Pretty sure my comment was either meant for a different question or that this question was changed, if that is possible. It's also weird that I can't remove my comment.

[Opinion Owner]

Best I can do is just anonymize this and ask for people to report it so it can be removed.

[Unit1]

This happened to me too.
These comments will stay.

[Darkest-Knight]

It takes someone to ask me out.