When a guy says he is busy, what does he really mean?

[Justneedtokno]

They’re busy doesn’t mean for you

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Does that mean not to pursue being in a relationship or anything with this person?

[Lesbologist]

If I say I'm busy, I'm fucking busy and you need to leave me alone.

My biggest bitch about women is most of them don't know how to entertain themselves. With the bulk of the women out there that means she's going to move onto another man simply because I don't want to make all the time in the world for her right off the first base. I can deal with that and let them go.

This isn't that harsh if you think about it... I'm the same exact way with the bros. If he just wants to party (drink, cocaine, and get hookers) and I have shit to do that's bigger than that or I only make time for that shit like once a week... am I really a bad guy for that? ... I mean seriously the only difference is she is the cocaine and the hooker, and I just don't have time or want to make time for that. Not my problem.

[Lesbologist]

If the relationship requires things you're not going to get... what are you doing? I think maybe you put too much value on the extra shit but that's not my choice to make.

You have your purpose for a relationship, and it's not going to be a relationship if you don't get what you want from it. Either that or you are getting something from it... just not everything you want.

[bowenw]

If it's a recurring thing with him, he's probably not really into you. It could mean he is seeing other people or has other things in his life he finds more important than you like gaming.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[Calyptomaniac]

If people want to make time for you, they will, no matter how busy they are

[Nikki1989]

That could mean anything coming from a male.

[AngryCarl3]

It's like when a woman says she's washing her hair. He's engaged in something utterly trivial but still more important than spending time with you.

[DryGermanGuy]

Stop the silly overthinking. Guys tell you how it is. Drama and theatrics are for girls.

[msc545]

It means he has things to do. How complicated is that?

[lilBigPotato]

Just ask 🤷‍♀️

[Anonymous]

It is hard to say without context.

[Anonymous]

It means they're busy, simple really.

[jamesgoldman]

Me I'm busy...70+ hour weeks

[Jamie05rhs]

It means he's busy.

[Jamie05rhs]

No; it doesn't mean not to try to have a relationship with him. Don't overreact. Lol.

You just need to wait until he is finished doing what he is doing.

[In_Trance]

He's busy

[DirtyOldMan777]

he's busy.